duckrepair Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 I've met up with this guy a several times; not sure what I think about him. I'm quite certain he's into me... I think he's pulled back some because of my mixed [or lack-there-of] signals. Should I tell him I'm not sure and that's why I'm acting strange? I don't want him to pull back.. I want him to keep hanging out with me & to keep talking to me.. I LOVE talking to him... We can talk about anything for hours & hours. I hadn't expressed any, if all, interest to him in the past few days (out of confusion only, not because I'm an ahole playing games...)So, today it hit me to send him a "kiss" in text.. and he goes.. "is that kiss? :p" and I told him.. "ya, it is. for you".... And he goes, "well muah back at ya. ;)" How do I GET sure about him?? I'm 100% certain I want to date. And I'm 100% certain I want an exclusive boyfriend/lover... I like to daydream about him when he's away and I'm always giddy to receive messages from him & to talk with him. I love thinking about how great he is & love thinking about the times we've had. But when I see him...I'm thinking in my head: "...Oh, I enjoy myself--this is great! but I'm just not sure what I think about you, dude..." And also to add, when I'm with him in person, I also don't think, "ew, I'd turn down a kiss from you if you initiated !".... So I dont feel the kind of 'grossed-out-ness' I feel towards a guy I'm not into AT ALL..
coolheadal Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 Talk to him in a quite place and ask him how he feels. Just can't second guess here about things like this? You'll never know what's going on..
Author duckrepair Posted September 9, 2011 Author Posted September 9, 2011 Yeh, I can do that next time I see him... though I feel like I need to jump on him and go "HOW DO I FEEL??! TELL ME" ..."Eff that, just KISS meeeee":lmao: Maybe I'll know by that way. hm.
AH1990 Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 I can tell you right now that I'm going through the exact same thing as you. This girl first came onto me and gave me her number. We went on about 3 dates, she fell asleep on me at my house, slept over in my bed and we cuddled. Then all the sudden when I ask her on a date she says she just got out of a 2yr relationship about 3 months ago and needs some time. Now I'm definitely getting mixed signals from her all the time. We talk some days, and others we don't. She went on vacation last weekend and I told her to have a fun trip, then she says "are you trying to get rid of me?". Some guys have a tough time reading girls and their mixed signals. We want the girl to reciprocate the same amount of effort we put into it. There is nothing more I'd like than for this girl to just kiss me! Hopefully what I said points you in the right direction.
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