mike588 Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 (edited) I know the terrible pain your going thru now by being dumped by someone you love/loved. I too was recently dumped,, my now ex g/f of 10 months dumped me to go back with her ex b/f. We are both in our 40s and have been thru breakups in the past but it still hurt me deeply! She knew I loved her very much, treated her so good,made her feel loved, special,appreciated, the sex was fantastic,( not just my side) and I never cheated. (Sounds like you??) Granted 10 months together is not along time and I'm not saying I'm completely healed or over her 100%, I still have some bad days but it doesn't hurt the way it did. Regardless if your trying to win them back or not what really does help is following the NO CONTACT RULE. By following this rule it helps you sooooo much in getting over him/her,, to move on and it may,,may make them miss you.I know it's so very hard to do but you must do this for yourself! Let them know (if you haven't already) how you feel without getting all upset and emotional then leave it at that!!!! No more contact!! By constantly calling, texting, crying begging etc. them only prolongs the agony your feeling and does actually drive them further away and makes you look pathetic and a loser!!!!! By following the No Contact rule has helped me tremendously even though it's only been 6 weeks since my heart was broken. I'm finally able to get at least 7 hrs. of sleep instead of 3 or 4,, I'm getting my appetite back and am not constantly thinking about her. By doing No Contact is a win win situation for you. You will survive this horrible time your going thru and will look back on this one day as a learning, growing experience. Best of luck to you. YOU WILL GET THRU THIS!!!!! Edited September 9, 2011 by mike588
danceallday Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 Thanks for your post. It is helping me and I am sure it is helping other people too.
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