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Dinner with coworker - how do you know if its a date?


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I'm just curious.

 

I've recently had to start working 1-on-1 with a new co-worker (temporary assignment) until almost 10pm one day a week. From the first week, I kind of feel something when he looks at me but I may be reading him wrong.

 

This second week, after everyone else left, he asked if I'd like to join him for a quick dinner because he was starving. I had to say no but he stayed with me until my ride came (rather than grabbing dinner, it was just down the block).

 

Do you think the dinner was a friendly invite or could be more? He's a co-worker, so I need to not mis-lead.

 

ETA: I was planning on inviting him to grab food with me next week, so as to not seem rude since we need to work together. But I don't want to do that if he has interest in me.

Edited by jolbell
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I NEVER assume dinner/lunch with a co-worker is a date...

 

They practically have to hit me over the head with a 2 x 4... which they don't seem to have any problems doing if they are interested.

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