Lost on Jerseyshore Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 Hi everyone, Tomorrow marks a month since my BU. I cant do NC because we work together. I have expressed that I want to fix us and I want him to come home. He keeps saying to me "i dont know what I want, I need time". I am sure this is just breadcrumbs he is tossing, but my question is... We have lived together for 2 years, if he doesnt know what he wants after 2 years, what the hell am I trying to fight to work on??? I mean today, I feel like WHATEVER, and dont want to be sick over this anymore. He asked to come over tomorrow to get some clothes and to "talk" alittle. I have reached a point where, I need a yes or no, will we or will we not work on us. Am I wrong??
ConfusedT Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 hi love! im so sorry you are going through this, but i think you should stop asking to fix things and let things be. everything happens for a reason, people come, people go. they teach us things about ourselves, sometimes they are there to help us finally find ourselves and discover our worth, so many reasons!! in all honesty, i dont know why he was in my life yet, but it will make sense eventually. its been about 2 months? ish for me as well & i am still not over this man, but i think 3 months or so post NC is when is it supposed to be better. i talk to all these girls who LOVE being single, i wish i felt that way!!!
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