KathyM Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 If you don't want us to mistrust women will you go on record as saying it is just as wrong for a woman to betray and mistreat a man as the other way around? Of course. Just as wrong.
Woggle Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 Of course. Just as wrong. Well at least one woman doesn't condone cheating when her own gender does it. I read the comments on that askmen article and I just give up. I don't care about not being hateful anymore.
KathyM Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 Well at least one woman doesn't condone cheating when her own gender does it. I read the comments on that askmen article and I just give up. I don't care about not being hateful anymore. Being hateful will not get you anywhere, dear boy. If your heart is bitter and closed off, you will only be hurting yourself. I know you want to protect your heart, and by having a don't care, hate them all attitude, you feel you are protecting yourself, but that will not help you in the long run. There are many good women out there. Invest your time in things that will put you in contact with them. You may want to explore your spiritual side. It may help you gain perspective, and also put you in contact with some quality people with values and character.
serial muse Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 Well at least one woman doesn't condone cheating when her own gender does it. I read the comments on that askmen article and I just give up. I don't care about not being hateful anymore. Seriously? How quickly you do forget. As you yourself said: I guess you are right. I am surprised all the women in this thread so far have condemned this behavior. To which, quite accurately I must add, sally4sara replied: Oh you're surprised in every thread. You'd think you'd be over the shock by now.
Woggle Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 This thread started out good but then came the justifications. I don't care anymore. I really don't.
serial muse Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 This thread started out good but then came the justifications. I don't care anymore. I really don't. Yeah, right. Well, allow me to point out the irony in this little statement of yours: There are more of them than women think but when they are hurt women lump them in with the rest of the jerks and says they deserve it. I have never cheated in my life ever but when I was cheated on I was told it was my payback for all the men that did cheat. Do good men deserve to get cheated on according to you? It makes me rage just thinking about what happened. You're actually talking about YOU. Change the genders in that phrasing and - look at that, it's EXACTLY you.
radiodarcy Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 I've had it happen that I was standing behind a guy in the hall of a theater. He was facing away from me and a girl in front of him was looking at me. When I noticed she was looking at me, she slowly grabbed the guy behind his head and started to slowly and passionately French kiss with him while she kept eye contact with me throughout the entire kiss, which was a very long one. Turned out the guy was her boyfriend, but he had no idea what she was doing, i.e. that she was looking with a horny look on her face at me, while she was kissing him. She didn't seem interested in him at all on an emotional level, as if he was some kind of object or prop that she used to seduce another guy. Kind of sucks if you think about it. The guy had a girlfriend, an attractive one at that, but she didn't seem to give a flying f*ck. Would seem to make life kind of pointless if all girls were like that. Perhaps we should start calling out girls like that. Telling their boyfriends on the spot. Or slipping him a not about what his girlfriend is doing, so he can witness it himself. That'd be kind of funny, who does that right? She wouldn't expect a guy to do that. Let's start some sh*t and get those sluts into trouble. i guess you could do that. i've had guys check me out while they're with their wives/gfs and i either look right through them or give them the refrigerator stare until they look away on turn their attention back to the person they're with. people who openly flirt like that are responsible for their own behavior. not their SO. besides even if you did tell her bf what's he going to do? either ignore it or take offense. and the other person is going to deny it anyway. so why bother? it's not worth it.
rafallus Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 (edited) Well at least one woman doesn't condone cheating when her own gender does it. I read the comments on that askmen article and I just give up. I don't care about not being hateful anymore.I must agree with women here, you seem to be witch-hunting. Better drop this "guilty until proven otherwise" thing towards people you don't know. Leave it for specific instances of "guilt" occuring. And yes, askmen comments are either insane, or simple trolling. Edited September 9, 2011 by rafallus
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