Coupedriver Posted September 8, 2011 Posted September 8, 2011 No sleep last night.....just thinking when I came up with the GRAND PLAN....ALL of the people on here get this 1 time chance....( if this could work..I SWEAR I would die happy...Even if it meant RIGHT NOW...!!!..If there is a Devil..I SWEAR I would make this deal...!!!! ) We get to stand face to face with the person who dumped us..we reach out and grab there hand but they cant figure out why they cant stop themselves....We look into there eyes...and we smile....slightly..head tilted...and then we get to TRANSFER every GD emotion they have put us through since the break up.....!! EVERYTHING..I mean it all.....sleepless nights,bad dreams..TRIGGERS...ALL OF IT....every last GD thing we have gone through....crying,begging,pleading..it all HITS then at once....we drop there hand and we stand back.The look on there faces would be F&CKING priceless..!! We can see it starting to take hold in them....They look...confused...they look...HELPLESS...lost...they start to cry..they drop to there knees...They start to SCREAM..."OMG..I AM SO SORRY..I could have NEVER thought I did this much damage to you.." We laugh and stand back because now WE control how long they will suffer like this....a week..a month...several months..several YEARS....I sure as hell wouldn't feel ANY PITY towards them...We can stop it whenever we want...."oh we tell them./...you want to sleep tonight..??? HELL NO baby..grab a BIG towel because you will be crying a river later...!!".."Oh you cant eat..I am SO sorry ...NOT...!!!! BE THE STRONGER person I can hear some say REVENGE ISNT GOOD.....WELL guess what..I REALLY dont care... I once was a whole person but I know deep within me...I will never be that person again....I was a DAMN good person a long time ago..I CARED....I REALLY cared....I GAVE until there wasnt anything to give...Like I said before..I am SO ashamed at what I have become...NO ONE and I mean NO ONE should be put through this..so I dont want to hear sh*t about."Oh its just life...You will heal.." Well guess what..SOME people NEVER heal..I still say I would make the deal....I want to see HOW she handles this....
Author Coupedriver Posted September 9, 2011 Author Posted September 9, 2011 a LOT of DUMPERS have NO CLASS..>!!!!! Read any "MY DUMPER was a WONDERFUL person.." posts lately..?? Accept a LOT of BS ?? Super hard for you to DUMP a girl like that..??!! Get a set my man...It will help you in the LONG run....
Janesays Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 RANDOM capitalization of random WORDS gives ME a headache. DOES everything you SAY need to be STRESSED? Pick AND choose, MAN. Pick and CHOOSE!
ScienceGal Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 RANDOM capitalization of random WORDS gives ME a headache. DOES everything you SAY need to be STRESSED? Pick AND choose, MAN. Pick and CHOOSE! haha! AAAAH, my EYES!
M2155 Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 RANDOM capitalization of random WORDS gives ME a headache. DOES everything you SAY need to be STRESSED? Pick AND choose, MAN. Pick and CHOOSE! I get your post, and your anger (I only wish my ex wants me back but it's too late and feels like he f$%&ed up). And it WILL pass when you meet someone awesome. But this comment was funny
ScienceGal Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 Sorry to make fun of the capitalization. I've had a very long day (tired!) and it was a little hard on the eyes. I see that you're upset, but in time hopefully you do not want to see anything bad to happen to your ex. It is something to say and joke about, but in reality, moving on and not having any feelings at all tied to them is the best. Love and hate are very closely related, but you will get through both of those in time.
Author Coupedriver Posted September 9, 2011 Author Posted September 9, 2011 RANDOM capitalization of random WORDS gives ME a headache. DOES everything you SAY need to be STRESSED? Pick AND choose, MAN. Pick and CHOOSE! Then why do you read them..? Theres plenty of posts on here that I dont read and some I do but I never complain about them.
Daremo_06 Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 Not all dumpers are bad.... My current situation, 3 years ago I dumped her. I gave her space, we got back in touch, became GREAT friends and when the relationship she was in ended, we got back together about 2 months later. Due to MY own screwups and not doing the right things in the relationship.. ie talking to your partner, she felt she had to leave and presto.. dumped. I had dinner with her tonight. There is hope for us, but even if it doesnt work out, her and I will still be friends. She is not a bad person, nor was I when I dumped her and I felt terrible doing it, but I knew it was better than leading her on to something that at that time wasnt real for me. Try this site... I think it will help you a great deal.... This is the link for when someone leaves you.. http://al.turtlecounseling.com/blog/_archives/2005/3/8/410458.html Good luck and lessen the hate, YOU will feel better not carrying it around and I do mean that..
lucylou71 Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 Coup...Your post brought tears to my eyes,because I was there 2 months ago,and some days I still am. I hope someday I will be able to be a bigger person and get past that stage like a lot of people on this site. I think it's important for all of us to get out our anger and this place should be the one place where we should be able to vent the pain without judgment. Good luck to you and hope you get to a good place soon.
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