sbradford2 Posted September 8, 2011 Posted September 8, 2011 Ok its pretty obvious by now that my kids father has moved on. He told me that will be together again "one day". I am not going to sit around waiting on that. He told me that he wants to spend time with me but not have a relationship. And I told him that I am not comfortable being around him when he doesn't want me in that way so it would be best if he just spend time with the kids without me. But he feels that since he doesn't want anything to do with me that I am bitter and going to keep the kids away from him. I texted him the other day to let him know that he can spend time with the kids as long as he is consistent and not just drop out of their lives and decide to come around later the way that he usually does. I told him to just set up a day and time every week that is convienient for him to spend time with them and we could go from there. He texted me back saying "ok I'll let you know". I have a feeling that I am not going to hear from him for awhile and that weeks or months later he is going to call and say that he misses them and wants to see them and expects me to jump at the opportunity for the him to spend time with the kids. Although I am hurt because he doesn't want me I just want to do the right thing. How should I go about this?
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