Untouchable_Fire Posted September 15, 2011 Posted September 15, 2011 BTW, we both have individual counselors and a marriage counselor. My C talked me out of an A, pointing to years later when my daughter marries and I don't have to share the aisle or father/daughter dance with some other douche. That seemed to work with me, for a while. What crap advice. Let this be very clear... if you are present and active in your daughters life, no douche is going to take your place... or even take part of your place. Why not just divorce and go for full on custody?
nyrias2 Posted September 15, 2011 Posted September 15, 2011 N was being sarcastic methinks. There was question of how to make the BS understands. Don't you think a revenge affair will hurt the WS the same way the BS was hurt before? So in the narrow objective of making the WS understand, it will work. The logic is pretty sound .. don't u think? (and no one says anything about long term relationship & things like that)
Owl Posted September 15, 2011 Posted September 15, 2011 There was question of how to make the BS understands. Don't you think a revenge affair will hurt the WS the same way the BS was hurt before? So in the narrow objective of making the WS understand, it will work. The logic is pretty sound .. don't u think? (and no one says anything about long term relationship & things like that) Sure...pretty much the same way that shooting a patient suffering from a viral disease will stop the spread of the disease.
Severely Unamused Posted September 15, 2011 Posted September 15, 2011 There was question of how to make the BS understands. Don't you think a revenge affair will hurt the WS the same way the BS was hurt before? So in the narrow objective of making the WS understand, it will work. The logic is pretty sound .. don't u think? (and no one says anything about long term relationship & things like that) A BS having an affair purely out of spite is different from a WS having an affair for some other reason (needs not being met, depression, whatever). The WS would have to take that into consideration. The motivation behind the affair is a factor.
nyrias2 Posted September 15, 2011 Posted September 15, 2011 Sure...pretty much the same way that shooting a patient suffering from a viral disease will stop the spread of the disease. Yeah ... and probably not unlike just quarantining them and letting them die. Probably cheaper cause you don't have to waste bullets.
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