jameswinters Posted September 8, 2011 Posted September 8, 2011 So I had two dates with this girl, I thought both went pretty well. Both were full day events. The first date began with an early hike in the morning and she even bought me bananas because I said that they would give me strength. After hiking I accompanied her to a car tune up Appt, then we ate lunch. After that we went to an art museum for 2 hours, both of us didn’t want to end the day, so we went to coffee afterward and we chit chatted for over an hour. The second date was two days later, so we went kite flying, then bowling and we had a great dinner together. She even showed me her private pictures (non x rated) just pictures that she has them private in her facebook and no one is able to see them. We have attended three dancing classes together, so tonight I drove her home after our dancing class and she even asked me when do I want to go again, so I said anytime when she available. There were couple time that she didn’t pickup my call on different occasions and she even gave me compelling reasons trying to offer me reassurance. So all these indicate that I am sailing smoothly. Here is where I get confused. So I texted her tonight (Wednesday) to see if she is doing anything Friday night. She replied maybe and asked what I want to do. So I threw a couple things like movie, mini golf, or go cart or just hangout, and asked if she have anything in mind. Then 15 minutes later she replied that she would prefer group activity All the above happened within a week. So is it that I am being too aggressive or what? I am just totally confused here. It is just like almost a 180 turn. Is she fading out or she is just playing hard to get? Any thoughts from the ladies or gentlemen would be greatly appreciated. many thanks
coolheadal Posted September 8, 2011 Posted September 8, 2011 Why not call her up on the phone and talk about it. Or even go to her pad to do it in person. Group activity sounds like she want to bring friends along with her. But you don't really want to do that do you? Don't you want to be just you and her going out. Take her to dinner then go see a movie after the movie go to club for dancing. Take control of the situation. Never ask her what she wants to do. Now you have that big question mark in your head.
Author jameswinters Posted September 8, 2011 Author Posted September 8, 2011 Yes, you are right. I have this big question mark in my head. I am uncertain why would she suggest group activity. It is obvious to her that I want it a one on one date, but why would she suggest that. Any thoughts from the ladies?
coolheadal Posted September 8, 2011 Posted September 8, 2011 If it's her girl friends she might want them to meet you. But that's a bit of rush for you though. Tell her your going out with her only and you have special plans. Then her some place you need to book a table for. Instead of a movie go see a play or take her to a comedy club is even better.
coolheadal Posted September 8, 2011 Posted September 8, 2011 That might be so but still who want's to go out with a group of people where you not even at that point of the relationship yet to meet the friends of your new girl of your life.
Emilia Posted September 8, 2011 Posted September 8, 2011 She might just want her friends to check you out, some people are like that. Or she is trying to mix it up a bit. If she wasn't interested she would just say she was busy on Friday
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