PolskaCommander Posted September 8, 2011 Posted September 8, 2011 My ex-girlfriend and I are pretty close friends right now. We are both 17. We were friends for 6 months prior to dating, then dated for 5 months, and it's been nearly a month since we broke up. We broke up once during the time we dated because of a stupid mistake I made of even breaking up in the first place. We got back together that same night, and broke up for good the next week. We broke up officially (which was the second time) because her parents wouldn't let her date me because I screwed up by breaking up with her earlier on. Since breaking up nearly a month ago, we've been close friends. We've seen each other a lot and hung out a lot. It's been awesome! I thought that now maybe we can be best friends for sure. However, now I'm thinking differently. I know she has feelings for me and I know deep down I still have feelings for her. After hanging out so much since breaking up because of her parents, these feelings start to appear again and we flirt a lot. My friends tell me to ask her to homecoming (it's a dance in high school). I agree that I should. But I know that if I do, that's also leading her on and showing that we both still have feelings for each other. Even if we go as "just friends," it's obvious we both still have feelings. Because of her parents, I know I can't date her. But if I ask her to homecoming and we go, maybe her parents will let us date again. The third option is to stay best friends with her and not make it a big deal. The last option is to completely let go now that the feelings are back. Yes, we broke up because of her parents. It's a bad reason, and enough to say we should still be dating each other. But what do you think? 1 second ago - 4 days left to answer.
aquaon Posted September 8, 2011 Posted September 8, 2011 Well from what you said it doesn't sound like you did anything wrong. I think her parents were just worried that you would break up with her again and were just trying to protect her. If you did ask her to the dance (which I think is you guys really like each other you should ) then maybe talk to her parents about dating her again and telling them how it was a mistake and you learned from it.
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