thoughtlife Posted September 7, 2011 Posted September 7, 2011 Today I stumbled upon my ex-girlfriend on Facebook and noticed that she had a new boyfriend. I had always assumed that because I am not completely over her I would be really upset/jealous she started to date someone new but instead I was surprised at what I felt...relief. It was as if someone removed these weights from my body is allowing me to move on. I feel like my thought process has become a bit more clearer in terms of being able to find someone new (though I am in no rush!). It's a great feeling but came as a surprise even to me. I am curious to know if anyone else has had something similar happen to them.
iheartsuki Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 i understand the feeling....your subconscious lets go of that person as an option (even if your conscious mind KNOWS they aren't one). i still feel a jolt of panic and dread when i see that my ex is no longer in a relationship (he's been through quite a few since we broke up)...it's like "oh no, he's available again!"....even though never in a million years would i go back to him.
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