NotaBadGuy Posted May 8, 2004 Posted May 8, 2004 Its been awhile since I have been one here, but have been busy. Anyways, as for the post --> To catch up those who are out of the loop, I was married last May, caught wife messing with guy 4 months later, she filed for divorce last December, divorce final in Feb. Thats the nutshell version. I had a very difficult time dealing with this and would often come here for advice and to vent my frustrations. Although there are many intricacies and factors involved in the whole situation that I did not mention now, the basic premise is intact. So fast forward to now. I just wanted to get the point across that one day after immense amounts of self blame3 and denial, the clouds of doubt do turn inside out. How did this happen? I just woke up one day here in the last month and told myself that I had to pull out of the tailspin. Its sort of analogous to losing control of your car in and then gaining control once again. When you have no control, you have no idea what may happen. Then al of a sudden, you get control and there you are. So my point is, keep the faith. Never give up. Do something for yourself. Dream big and believe big. If you were with pond scum before, remember, they remain pond scum to this day. You are better off and deserve much better. JUst a little positive reinforcement to pass off in tough and difficult times. It does get better. Not overnight by any means, but trust me, it does get better.
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