"Not Like My Grandparents Generation"

[Elysian Powder]

This is absurd but I seriously doubt even most feminists would agree with that. Every area has it's looney tunes.

 

Isn't it amusing? The Scandinavian males are the most emasculated bunch of ''men'' Europe as produced as of yet, but the men in the icy lands are further prosecuted by the feminism. Gotta love socialism.

[irc333]

But then women have the power of putting any man they wish behind bars if they so please.

 

Exactly, a friend of mine who was living with his G/f, she went nuts on him, and started to hit him, he restrained her by holding her risks to keep her from hitting him.

 

He left marks, she called the cops, they showed up and arrested him.....he got off with only having to take anger management courses, but that's it since he had no previous history.

 

Pretty sad.

[Woggle]

Even I don't believe most feminists believe a man should be charged for not paying attention to a woman.

 

The sad thing about false rape accusations is that it hurts actual rape victims. The backlash against this stuff in the courts will eventually make it much harder for women who actually are raped to get justice. Women who make false accusations are horrible people.

[Elysian Powder]

Exactly, a friend of mine who was living with his G/f, she went nuts on him, and started to hit him, he restrained her by holding her risks to keep her from hitting him.

 

He left marks, she called the cops, they showed up and arrested him.....he got off with only having to take anger management courses, but that's it since he had no previous history.

 

Pretty sad.

 

Or how the leader of my community is being extorted via alimony and child-support and he ain't even allowed to come close to his kids. I'm sure he appreciated coming home from hours and hours of intense work to find his wife banging some scum on the bed his parents offered as his marriage gift.

 

He must have felt really special when the wifey called the cops, claimed to being a victim to a ''bad, bad man'' and didn't even had any proof of that evilness.

 

It's not like a great part of his job was related to his social standing. Of course not. Who wouldn't want a man who ''abuses'' his goody wife to be around children?

 

How fast a man's life can change. You can be married/living together/dating Mary fcking Jane, but if she(and she will) changes, you are going to end up homeless while selling everything you can find to send the slavery money to your plantation owner; your ex-wife.

 

This is why every time I hear a woman complain and cry that no decent man is to be found, I burst out in tears of laughter 'cause I know where they are hiding but I won't tell, and all a woman will ever get from me is a shape covered by durex and nothing more.

 

I ain't no slave and I'll never be part of the slave plantation.

 

Even I don't believe most feminists believe a man should be charged for not paying attention to a woman.

 

Women only turn to feminism when they are aging, or are already ugly. You won't see Adriana Lima complaining of the plight of the modern woman, but the first promise the female president gave to her Country was; ''women will no longer be under men; women deserve this and that blablabla''.

 

Trust me. Feminist want to be as good-looking as the ''victims'' they want to protect from the dark intentions of men! That hatred from men has it's origin in their lack of power in attracting a male.

Edited September 9, 2011 by Elysian Powder

[D-Lish]

I thought this thread was about our grandparents and how they met. Now it is about how women are mistreated?

 

The thread is about "Not like my Grandparents generation"...

 

Talking about dating and marriage are natural segways given the title.

 

The bottom line is that it wasn't like The made it out to be on "Happy Days" where everyone lived happily ever after like the Cunningham's...

[sm1tten]

Yet another thread devolving into "who has it worse."

 

Le sigh.

[D-Lish]

Even I don't believe most feminists believe a man should be charged for not paying attention to a woman.

 

The sad thing about false rape accusations is that it hurts actual rape victims. The backlash against this stuff in the courts will eventually make it much harder for women who actually are raped to get justice. Women who make false accusations are horrible people.

 

So are men that beat their wives- so are people that abuse animals-

How has this thread run so off topic ?

 

It's obvious you are back to your woman hating ways. Sad.

[Woggle]

Problems and horrible families have always existed and always will but these day's it's like we don't even aspire to be our best. Some people are actually proud of being as messed up as they can be.

[Disenchantedly Yours]

Seriously Woogle and Elysian, if you don't have anything to contribute with stories of your grandparents and something in dating today you wouldn't mind seeing that maybe was around back in the day, why are you in this thread to begin with?

[AHardDaysNight]

They're commenting on current society, or at least stereotypes of it.

[Woggle]

Seriously Woogle and Elysian, if you don't have anything to contribute with stories of your grandparents and something in dating today you wouldn't mind seeing that maybe was around back in the day, why are you in this thread to begin with?

 

I did post about my grandparents.

[skelterhelter]

Women like playing hard to get. They like rejecting the man at first(even if they like the man) and saying no. They like being chased.

 

Yes, absolutely. There's a bit of fun and excitement in being both the chaser or the chased. With pursuing someone, there's that element of risk that keeps you in a state of heightened excitement. It's also a strategy: what can I do to engage this person enough to like me? How far can I take the flirtation to the brink of actually securing a date? Even with the fear of rejection, there's always that hope one can alter their method of pursuit to finally get that person of their desire. As stated, it's a game.

 

But being chased is awesome too. Picking up on all the little clues of interest, flirting unabashedly but still holding the power of refusal, basking in the attention, playing hard to get enough to keep them coming back for more, etc. It's flattering to either sex when someone likes you enough to make a move! (Providing you're actually somewhat interested in this person, of course).

 

My current guy pursued me for months...hell, it even sounds like some of the grandparent stories here: I was the checkout girl; he was the customer coming in whenever I was working. Started as innocent talking (with him lingering around longer than the average customer), then began the flirtation. I have to say, it was fun and very flattering to be complimented and pursued Needless to say, I eventually accepted his request for a date

[D-Lish]

This thread is taking a rapidly depressing turn. As my ma said, times were just different back then. And I think its evident among the interactions between women and men in these threads.

 

I don't know why this thread has turned into yet another gender war, why does this always happen?

 

The bottom line is women were faced with a disadvantage in the 40's and 50's, that they don't have to face today. They were considered second class citizens- that's not something you can argue with- Dating and marriage was different back then because of that reality.

 

Talking about false rape allegations and men getting fined for staring at a woman on the bus are so far off topic that this thread is going to get closed.

Edited September 9, 2011 by D-Lish

[Woggle]

We are on a relationship board and as you can tell gender relations are not good at all between men and women so any thread on here will reflect that.