RedRedMe Posted September 7, 2011 Posted September 7, 2011 My fiance and I are in a very bad spot in our relationship right now. While in that rut, I find myself having deeper feelings for his best friend. To clarify, there has always been something weird between us. He is more my type and our humor meshes so well together. He does so many little things that show he likes me and sometimes I am afraid I act the same way toward him. Thanks to some minor infidelity and betrayal on my fiance's part, my unspoken feelings toward his best friend (the best man actually) have become stronger. I do not want a relationship with his friend but I feel like the way we are with each other combined with the rough patch in my relationship could lead to trouble. Should I just talk it out with the best friend? Get our feelings out in the open so we can end this weirdness? Or should I ignore it like I have been? Again, I am not looking to cheat. Oh, and I titled this the "Best Friend Syndrome" because I swear that in every relationship I have been in, if my SO wasn't crushing on my best friend then I was crushing on his. I've also noticed it with my friends' relationships.
PegNosePete Posted September 7, 2011 Posted September 7, 2011 You need to break up with your fiance. You should not be having feelings like this for another person while you are in a committed relationship.
Osiris1234 Posted September 8, 2011 Posted September 8, 2011 Thanks to some minor infidelity and betrayal on my fiance's part, my unspoken feelings toward his best friend (the best man actually) have become stronger. So your saying that since he cheated on you, you have the right to cheat right back on him? That sounds alot like revenge and will make you look like the lesser person in the relationship.
Dust Posted September 8, 2011 Posted September 8, 2011 This sounds like drama. No don’t talk it out with the best friend. I don’t even know what that means. What you should do is dump your fiancé because he will just cheat more. Then you should start fresh. What does it sound like you’re going to do. It sounds like you are going to marry your fiancé and have relations with his best man. Drama!
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