henderson14 Posted September 7, 2011 Posted September 7, 2011 I was with this girl for 1.5 years. She fell in love with me, but I unfortunately had to break her heart. Well it's been 2.5 years going on 3 and she still sends me messages on facebook. I get a message about every 1.5 -2 months and the first 6 months I would still get occasional calls and texts. The crazy thing is, is that I haven't replied yet, so you think she would stop. Sometimes I want to respond, just to let her know how things are going and see what is going on with her. But then I'm afraid she will never let me alone and will try to get back together with me. I really wish she would move on but I seriously don't know if she will. I have NO interest in dating her again. We are post college aged. Would it be unwise to reply back?
ShoeGurl1973 Posted September 7, 2011 Posted September 7, 2011 I think you can reply and do so in a way that commands the feeling that this is your one and only email and you don't expect to start corresponding. I know this for a fact because once I emailed an ex from high school just to see how he is doing. I had no intentions on becoming email buddies..but his response made that official. Simply respond something to the effect of : "Hi {name} Good to hear from you. Im currently living here...doing this...things in my life are good. Nice to see you are doing ok. I hope things are well for you, I wish you the best." It's polite and to the point, no emotion, so there's nothing for her to interpret as you wanting to get back together. If she keeps emailing, she is psycho and well, you can't fix crazy
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