robdrm32 Posted September 7, 2011 Posted September 7, 2011 I've recently begun talking to my ex that i broke up with a couple months ago. It was mutual, no arguing or anger. It never got serious. I initiated the contact again partly because I feel like she is the only girl i've been with that I can actually trust and is a decent person. And for the record, yes I am over her I have moved on. I think i'm in a better place emotionally now so the relationship has a good shot at working out. What it boils down to is I want her back. I realize now some of the things I did that killed the romance, and while it wasn't all my fault I see how I acted like a little b*tch alot of the time. You can read my old posts if you care to get insight. We've been texting a bit mostly light convo, both initiating. I asked to see her and she said okay, but I never followed up (kind of a game on my part tbh) just to see what happened. I'm thinking of taking her out a couple of times, and putting it out there that I want her back plain and simple. I'm not gonna beg (although that may work who knows) but I don't want to be in a situation where she is keeping me around as an ego boost. My question: Do i try to move slow with this and see her for a month or so before bringing things back up? Or do i wait only after a couple dates so I don't drag it out. Any experiences you have had with this is appreciated.
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