SoccerPlaya Posted September 7, 2011 Posted September 7, 2011 Heres the scoop. I take my godson to my apartment's playground almost every other evening. Less than a month ago I met a cute, 6" plus guy with his niece....didn't think much of it at first but as we talked more I realized that there may be a real connection. He's a nice guy and talks to everyone, but I began to notice that he kept making an effort to talk/walk with me and my godson (even when there were other people around). Tonight we talked for an hour and a half and I was SURE he was finally going to ask me out. At one point we were talking about baseball and he said something like "you'll have to come some time". I said it sounded like fun but then we just started chatting again. Whyyy hasn't he asked me out?! I honestly don't think he has confidence issues, in fact he seems very comfortable in his own skin Should I just forget it or could he still be waiting to make his move?
country_gurl Posted September 7, 2011 Posted September 7, 2011 Heres the scoop. I take my godson to my apartment's playground almost every other evening. Less than a month ago I met a cute, 6" plus guy with his niece....didn't think much of it at first but as we talked more I realized that there may be a real connection. He's a nice guy and talks to everyone, but I began to notice that he kept making an effort to talk/walk with me and my godson (even when there were other people around). Tonight we talked for an hour and a half and I was SURE he was finally going to ask me out. At one point we were talking about baseball and he said something like "you'll have to come some time". I said it sounded like fun but then we just started chatting again. Whyyy hasn't he asked me out?! I honestly don't think he has confidence issues, in fact he seems very comfortable in his own skin Should I just forget it or could he still be waiting to make his move? I hate to say it but maybe he's just not interested in anything with you other than a casual friendship? If he's friendly with everyone maybe his comment of "you'll have to come some time" was just the kind of comment he would make to anyone? Do you even know if he's truly SINGLE? Maybe he's not. PS - how do you know he's more than 6 inches? ;-) (i know, I know, you meant 6' as in 6 ft tall)
You'reasian Posted September 7, 2011 Posted September 7, 2011 Heres the scoop. Less than a month ago I met a cute, 6" plus guy with his niece. Was this on a nude beach? He's a nice guy and talks to everyone, but I began to notice that he kept making an effort to talk/walk with me and my godson (even when there were other people around). I question whether you were making enough eye contact... Tonight we talked for an hour and a half and I was SURE he was finally going to ask me out. At one point we were talking about baseball and he said something like "you'll have to come some time". I said it sounded like fun but then we just started chatting again. Whyyy hasn't he asked me out?! I honestly don't think he has confidence issues, in fact he seems very comfortable in his own skin Should I just forget it or could he still be waiting to make his move? Just because you talk to some guy and find him attractive doesn't mean that he can read your mind and be on the same page. Sounds like he showed some luke warm interest. What did you do to get him interested in you?
Author SoccerPlaya Posted September 7, 2011 Author Posted September 7, 2011 Yes he is single. Awhile back he told me without me even asking (and also inquired about my status). He's friendly with everyone but we always end up one-on-one in our own conversation. Talk about unclear signals
Author SoccerPlaya Posted September 7, 2011 Author Posted September 7, 2011 Haha whoops. 6 feet TALL Thats all I know And no I didn't make eye contact when he said that because I was so nervous BUT I feel like it's written all over my face!!
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