intigo Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 i just had tha most amazing convo with my ex!!! she told me we will never be together again and she is sure about this, she feels nothing for me, she is not in love with me and wont be in the future!!!!. ok what it did wrong: i was sincere to her, i trusted her, i treated her like a princess,she had a good time with me, she had the greatest sex with me (her words), i fell in love with her and i told her, she told me i hug her like noone else (wtf?), she told me i made her feel special, she liked everything about me, she said im sexy, she said im everything she wanted in a relationship, she wanted to see me everyday. W T F is wrong with her? she felt like she was falling in love with me 2 times and she said the feeling just left (the first time it was 3 days the second it was 4 days) so i guess it wasnt love... we were together for 3 months. A girl who was hurt in the past who couldnt trust men. she told me i want to fall in love with you i want to be with you and now she tells me not to have any hope for the future.When we started dating she told me one day i see you only as a friend one week later she was falling for me and it was her decision to start a relationship it was her decision to have sex (she has some issues about men only been with 4 men at 29 and thinks that all men just want sex) WTF? DO YOU GIRLS WANT? if you dont like me dont start anything with me and if you are not in love with me dont have sex with me.Dont make me your experiment. she knew i wanted something serious she wanted the same too...when i start something with a girl i am sure about what i want and what i feel.. if your are confused DONT start anything..so now the result.. her moving on with her life and doesnt seem to care and myself deeply in love with a girl that i believe is my other half, hopeless, with my heart broken into a 1000 pieces. its been a month since we broke up i fed myself false hope all this time. this is closure this is the end...i dont know if i want her to be happy or be hurt again.. 1 hour ago i wanted the best for her now i dont know if i do... what do you girls really want? how can i trust another girl? how can i let myself fall in love again? am i the only one who knows what i want and what i feel? i hate my life
micot Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 well if she said all those positive things about you and broke up with you pretty obviously she was lyeing to you ,but she's female so lieing is expected
just_scott Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 ,but she's female so lieing is expected OH MAN best and truest [is that a word lol ] thing i've seen in here in a long time ,i do agree with that with all my heart .
M2155 Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 Honestly she just wan't that into you. Truth hurts sometimes. There's a girl out there that will appreciate you.
Author intigo Posted September 6, 2011 Author Posted September 6, 2011 Honestly she just wan't that into you. Truth hurts sometimes. There's a girl out there that will appreciate you. hope shes better than my ex, i will start my search from monday...
Chi townD Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 what do you girls really want? how can i trust another girl? how can i let myself fall in love again? am i the only one who knows what i want and what i feel? i hate my life What do girls really want? As soon as you figure that out, let the rest of us know! You can trust a girl when you feel it. WHen yu know she loves you and she can't imagine anyone else in her life. If your gut is telling you something isn't right, your gut is usually right. You can fall in love again when you start loving yourself again. Once you can do that, then you can give your heart away to someone who deserves it, believe me, you feel it and know for sure.
M2155 Posted September 7, 2011 Posted September 7, 2011 If your gut is telling you something isn't right, your gut is usually right. That's the truth!
danceallday Posted September 7, 2011 Posted September 7, 2011 Don't bash on women. I have had an awful experience with my ex where he lied, and lied, and lied. Even when I asked him point blank about things. So does that men all men are bad? No. I know for a fact there are decent men out there.
Buttercup84 Posted September 7, 2011 Posted September 7, 2011 Yeah sorry I am a woman and do not lie. I would not play with someones feelings like that.
Author intigo Posted September 7, 2011 Author Posted September 7, 2011 is this so hard? i dont think so... being honest is the fountation to a healthy relationship why do we have to make everything so complicated and hurt eachother?if you strart something and you are not sure just say it
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