Day 9 NC, and she calls

[arbrne_vet]

left a message, said she wanted to talk. i did not answer. called at the end of the day, left another message, wanted to talk. called ten minutes later. i texted later in the evening, and wanted to know what she wanted. she said she wanted to talk. guess, what, i did not want to talk to her!!

 

so, i asked what she wanted to talk about, and she responded, did she need approval??

 

so, i told her i would call her when i got done cleaning up. i sat there for 45 minutes, contemplating to call. i did not want to. i wanted nothing to do with her, but, me being the nice guy, i called. she wanted me to print out a cover letter, which i have on my flash drive and e-mailed to her. her printer was not working. i told her i would mail it to her, and she said no, she wanted to come get it.

 

so, ladies, WTF is she doing???

[Spices]

She misses you & is using this as an excuse to see you. Her ego is also probably a little hurt from you not contacting her.

 

I mean, honestly, out of all the people that she could have contacted for help, she contacts you. She also could have gone to the library to do it, but no, she contacts you to help her.

[ChelleBelle]

Simple. She is checking out how u r doing and how the land lies. She had a weak moment and wants to c how your doing.

 

Breaking up is sometimes hard to do

[radiodarcy]

no way of knowing for sure what her motive is. but my guess would be she's trying to get the upper hand. she's pissed off that you're ignoring her and she's determined to get you back under her control.

 

personally i would leave it outside or something. and where does she she get off mocking you and saying "do i need your approval"? if you don't want to talk to her you don't have to. good grief.

 

i'm a nice person too but if someone had the audacity to say that to me that would set me to bitch mode in 2.8 seconds.