laurendee Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 (edited) Background: My ex and I broke up about 6 months ago. We ended it after a stupid drunken fight, but it was hard because we both still cared about each other. Between now and then, we have both dated other people and seen each other a handful of times (we run in the same social circle) - in those times it has either been 1) ignoring each other for the sake of avoiding drama, 2) awkwardly trying to remain civil, or 3) one of us was with the current person we were dating. Current situation: Well, a few weeks ago I got into a minor fender bender and seeing as my ex is a body shop manager, I asked him to help me out. He was nice enough to agree, although we hadn't talked in quite awhile. We met up so that he could assess the damage, and he told me he would fix it on my time, at my house, for no pay. I was super grateful, and as I was about to leave he asked me to have drinks with him. We went to a restaurant and stayed there for hours talking and laughing, he paid for all my drinks (although I thought it was strange HE was the one fixing MY car). I ended up seeing him two more times that weekend, one time of which he kinda invited himself and a friend over after a party. I saw him more in an weekend than I saw him in a month, it was nice to hang out and things finally seem normal with us. Come Wednesday night, my ex comes over to fix my car and then we hang out for a couple of hours. When it comes time for him to leave, he hugs me long and tight. Next thing I knew, I was smackdab in the middle of a movie moment-- that kiss was mind-blowing and it seemed to last forever. I knew after that kiss that my feelings were obviously still there, as were his, and I wanted nothing more than to work things out with him again. We hung out almost every day for the next three days, always only with our group of friends, never alone, and no PDA or anything of the such. Sunday night, we went to a friends' place and he was being extra flirty the whole night. We ended up upstairs alone and hooked up. Didn't really regret it, but probably wasn't the smartest idea. Question: Well last time I had seen my ex before these recent events was a month ago, and at the time he had a girlfriend he had just started dating. But within the past two weeks, I haven't seen her/heard about her and he is openly flirty with me in front of all his friends, who also know her. No one seems to know what it is going on-- some of our friends tell me they are still together, and some tell me that they aren't. At the same time, I am kinda of seeing someone else as well. It's not serious; I just really like this guy and enjoy his company, but we spend a lot of time together. I know that if my ex gives us a chance to work things out, it will be hard to let go of the guy I'm seeing now. So this all happened two days ago. I haven't talked to him since (which I don't expect because we haven't texted/phoned unless it's to hangout). I'm just a little confused on where to go from here... ?? Edit: Shortened my previous post which was like crazy stupid long. LOL sorry, guys. Edited September 6, 2011 by laurendee
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