Ajax Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 This morning I got a text from a girl who I'd dated on and off for a year back in 2006-2007. We catch up a couple times a year. Today I woke up to this text message: Good morning! "Ajax" u were in my dream last night. U insisted on dressing up like Santa Clause even tho its Sept and wish everyone a Merry Christmas. Lol I squeezed your butt and went with you. Thats all I can remember. Hope that puts a smile on your face today So I guess what I'm hoping people can take away from this is that even years after a relationship (which she ended by the way), and even when they're over you and you're over them, we still enter their thoughts and dreams on occasion. It's somewhat validating. And it did put a smile on my face. And maybe I will dress up like Santa Clause and wish everyone a Merry Christmas this month.
ScienceGal Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 And it did put a smile on my face. And maybe I will dress up like Santa Clause and wish everyone a Merry Christmas this month. I hope you get the butt sqeeze too
Author Ajax Posted September 6, 2011 Author Posted September 6, 2011 I hope you get the butt sqeeze too I hope I do too!
collegeguy_24 Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 Ajax my friend, its been a long time. How have you been? The whole dreaming thing, I would love it if my ex dreamed of me. I still dream of her, sometimes its the good memories we share, or my dreams consist of us having a nice, normal conversation and working on becoming friends, sometimes more, but not often as I know that is the least likely option.
visualbasicide Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 Before I met my ex I used to have pretty bad nightmares, constantly. Had for a long long time too, so as much as that sounds like it sucks, I was used to it. Bad things happen, I wake up, everything is ok, no problem, hooray me. During the relationship it stopped, don't really recall what I dreamed, nothing worthy of remembering obviously. Right before it ended (where I was the only one that didn't know it was already over) I had the most perfect dream of me, her and our step daughter. I'm fairly certain it was the best dream I have ever had. It radiated contentment. And pretty much every dream I'v had about them since then has been exactly the uncaring callousness and abandonment I have come to know in reality. I would much rather have my nightmares back. Now when I wake up from a bad dream of the ex, nothing has changed. No better scenario, and a reminder that I don't particularly want or need. I'm quite capable of comprehending the situation in which I find myself without all this subconscious masochistic terrorism, thank you very much. I'm quite heartened to think she dreams of me, I hope they are as lucid and emotionally fulfilling as my own and leave the same impressions upon waking.
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