bRyan1981 Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 Okay first off let me just say that it has been quite some time since I've been dating, so maybe thats why I'm having trouble understanding my problem. Or maybe I already know the answers to my problem but I just don't want to believe it. Please don't be afraid to critisize me or the person in question because I'm looking for a serious answer to an awkward situation in which I never dealt with. Okay so here is goes. About 3 months ago I started seeing this girl that I met at work ( not a coworker but a customer of mine) She has a twin sister whom she lives with. I met them both at the same time. So I started hanging out with both of them at first and after a couple weeks I started get close to one of them. We were hanging out quite a bit going on dates, doing dinner, Movies, playing pool, bowling, etc. ect. I also need to mention the fact that she had gotten out of a relationship of 2 years about 3 or 4 months before we met. They broke up because he attempted to cheat on her with her twin sister or so she says. Anyways things started to get hot and heavy about a month and a half into we. We added sex to the equation even though we weren't actually officially a couple. The sex was really good thus we were doing it often, she was very aggressive sexually. We often talked about how we were slowly building ourselves up to a more serious relationship. in other words we agreed to take it slow as far as getting serious was. She often told others how much she liked me and was looking forward to building something special with me. I heard this left and right from everyone around us including her twin sister. She wanted to meet my family so I introduced her to them even though I normally wouldn't do this unless I was truly serious with a girl. My whole family took to her and treated her with so much respect, and they all really liked her. About 2 weeks ago her birthday came up and that when things started going south. I took her out for her birthday to a nice fancy place for steaks and afterwards we went out for a few cocktails at a nice local place by where I live. I went up to the bar to order a few drinks for us and I noticed she was talking to some other guy while I was at the bar getting us drinks. I thought nothing of it because I'm a respecable guy and I often give people the benefit of the doubt. By the time I got back he was gone and her and I enjoyed the rest of our evening. Now I'm serious when I say this but the very next day she invites me over to her place and when I get there this guy just happens to be there along with her sister and another one of their girlfriends. She's sitting on the couch next to him getting all close to him which really makes me feel extremely awkward. Her own sister even thought it was really messed up. Keep in mind that I was never nothing but good to this girl and we got along real well. From this point forward she has been hanging out with this guy 24/7 and is now having sex with him and has basically tossed me aside like an old chicken bone. Yet she still calls me all the time and wants to hang out. I just don't get it. What's wrong with this girl? It's like she completly disregarded my feelings altogether yet still wants me around so she can shove this new guy in my face. I'm just trying to understand what the hell happened and why somebody would treat someone like this suddenly. Is she a really bad person? I'm really confused I've never dealt with such an awkward situation before. Is she just a straight up whore who cares about nobody but herself? She can't even be honest with me about whats going on between us whenever I confront her about it. Why? It would be a lot easier if she just just flat out told me she wants nothing to do with me anymore but she continues to call me and I have no idea why. I feel like she's purposely trying to mess with my head and I can't figure it out. I'm curious to see what others opinions are about the whole situation. I really don't want anything to do with her at this point but I really do want to understand what they hell happend and why a girl would do something like this. Thank you.
thatone Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 she hates you because you're prejudiced against paragraphs and line breaks.
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