duckrepair Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 We were talking about movies... and he said he wanted to see one particular. So I said.. a very short "take me". and he replies... "Not on a first date. I want to take you some place where I can get to know you and talk to you :)".... But then that was pretty much it and he hasn't initiated meeting.. He calls me cute and "cutie" all the time. So at least I know he isn't thinking I'm fug. He's pierced out. tattoo guy, works in a tattoo shop. Likes hardcore music. So he isn't really anything like me or what I'm used to... But he's super sweet & sounds like a pretty good guy. So that's what got my interest. And he's gooood looking. Uhm, I guess I'm cute/slightly above average. Normal looking (compared to him, haha)... Is he rejecting me because I'm not, uh, cool looking enough ?_? Maybe I should just pony up and say "When are we going out?" ... put it on him. Get the mystery out of the way.. Sheesh. :/
thatone Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 movies are bad first dates, i agree with him. that said you put the ball in his court, he knows you're interested, so you have more backbone than a lot of women around this forum, you have that going for you at the very least.
AHardDaysNight Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 Maybe he wants to get to know you in a place that doesn't require shouting (movies, bars, etc?) That being said, he doesn't strike me as someone who thinks you're fug. You probably are projecting your own insecurities onto him.
Author duckrepair Posted September 6, 2011 Author Posted September 6, 2011 maybe i am projecting, but im not sure why he isnt asking me out. Huff. i want to flatter myself and say he's intimidated All i want is one small meeting face-to-face with this guy... gotta see him in person. Watch him. learn about him. then if it goes poof and i never see him again, I'll be fine... just want him to ask me the @#$% out. lmao. i get all giddy school-girl on this guy. he never complains about it, though. HRM. I'm ok with him not taking me to a movie... But how can i get him to ask me somewhere else? Huff :<
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