czen Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 I've had a relationship for about a month now and things were all looking good, but now she says she's beginning to have doubts. It's a LDR, she lives about two hours away from me, but we always have to travel with the train to see each other. We met each other over the internet, which was a month before we first met and we already decided to start a relation the first time we saw each other, which I found rather quick, but I really liked her and it was her idea, so I was fine with it. We're seeing each other each weekend, but today she told me while chatting that she's havind doubts because she isn't really in love with me and she doesn't know if that feeling will ever come. She never had a relationship before and she has never been in love before either, so she's really confused about everything. I was really surprised because when we saw each other for the last time, everything was going great. I actually think I was slowly starting to fall in love with her in stead of only really liking her. But now my qusetion is, how do I deal with this? I'm trying to be as understanding as possible, but I find it ridiculous that one day she seems really into me and the next day she suddenly had doubts. Also, I believe that it's normal that you're not immediately in love with someone, I can't fall in love with someone who I haven't known for a couple of months... but she's really scared that we're wasting our time because she isn't in love. I really don't know how to respond to everything she's saying, doesnbody have any help?...
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