Buttercup84 Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 I'm just so hurt and angry right now . My ex put me through hell. I found out that he signed to a dating site before he dumped me , and judging by the photos he had that profile on stand by for two years while we were together . After his ex dumped him he went on there straight away . He spoke badly about me to his friends judging by their messages . He said he never had a good birthday. On his first of us together I baked him a cake , sent him balloons to work and got him what he wanted . On our last I was unemployed but my parents made him lunch and got him a cake . Yet that wasn't good enough . He said the only reason we were still together is because he hadn't met a nicer girl yet . He made me feel like a horrible person . I suspect that he might have gone out to meet girls. Just a feeling . Plus his browser history was always empty . He said that he often clears it to make it " clean " I gave so much to him , loved him with all my heart . And he falls out of love with me and treated me like **** . He had very good moments but blamed his bad on me
lucylou71 Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 That's the typical MO of a cheater. They usually give you a long laundry list of what's wrong with you.It's their way of justifying their infidelity. In reality they're the one with the problem,and cheating is just a quick fix to help them with their own issues in the relationship. I know..I'm dealing with a cheating husband who left me for his own cheating coworker. Yes...she's married too. I know it's hard to see it now,but it will get better. Make sure you surround yourself with a good support group. Don't be afraid to lean on friends and family. Talk with them and keep posting on this site. It has helped me so much. People here have so much experience and insight...they've been there done that so to speak.. Eventually, the pain and sadness will get easier to manage. We're all here to help. Good luck to you.
LN99 Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 Yes, I just went through something similiar. My ex was cheating on me for the past yr of our nearly 4 yr relationship. I did everything for him to make his life easier. All he had to do is work! But yet he found a way to clear his browsing history and even managed to hook up with people over the course of the last yr. Things were going kinda "Eh" for awhile and i suspected something was up. But he denied everything. When I found my proof on his phone via texts...he was upset at me. I was the person in the wrong for looking through his phone. Oh yeah and I kept pushing him away and I didn't want to have a baby last yr.....so that was his excuse for cheating on me. :rolleyes: All I can say is....he is a jerk. So is your ex. If they are so quick to cheat when things don't go their way, then they aren't worth your time or your tears. There are better out there. Where? I don't know. But there is....and I hope someday all the good, honest, decent women find them.
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