dawn21 Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 my girlfriend S & I have been together for over a year and a half. this summer has been full of ups and downs, she's starting to act different towards me and i'm not sure why. i can't pin point when she started acting like this but here's what she's doing.. she rarely cuddles with me anymore, she always wants "her space" when we're hanging out at her house, its like i can't even touch her anymore and when i do, i have to ask. i ask if i can hug her, kiss her, or hold her hand. the usual response is no. instead of cuddling and being all lovey dovey, she would rather play. as in wrestling, pillow fights, taking a blanket from me, playfully hitting me.. that's all she's really interested in now and when i don't participate she gets mad. she gets mad when i'm busy and can't text her, whenever we fight she manipulates the situation and makes me feel bad when i don't do anything wrong. she always always talks my ear off about her day but never seems interested in mine. i feel unimportant and neglected. i'm her first serious relationship and i'm worried that maybe she is bored? i've never been cheated on before but i just have a realllly bad feeling with how she's been acting lately. i don't know why this is happening because i go out of my way to make her happy, i haven't done anything wrong. i don't know whats going on or how to deal with it.
Mcnulty Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 Confront her man. Tell her you're feeling like there's a gap forming between you and ask her why. It's obviously making you unhappy...face it head on...better to know the truth than to keep wondering why.
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