Feelin Frisky Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 You will be assimilated, resistance is futile. I am Locutus of Borg. Your life as it has been is over. From this time forward, you will service US..
Author LoveandSuch Posted September 5, 2011 Author Posted September 5, 2011 Maybe because Bill Gates was in love with her. Maybe even before he became rich... i dont know their story. I don't know where this stereotype of men wanting supermodels (or paris hilton...icky!) comes from but we really arent that shallow. Exactly! Not all men are shallllllllllow! But, lol, I love to see many of these men who are putting Paris Hilton down....if she slinked up to one of them and said, "hey baby," how quickly there pre judgements would go out the door, the want to hate her to hate her phenomenom.
Feelin Frisky Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 As for the OP question, there is a lot of mythology propogated by commercialist/sensationalist media about men. We are all one of a kind and have our own emphasis on things. I will certainly notice a beautiful woman but what I really want is someone reasonably good-looking and feminine who can be trusted and who wants me. (no homo)
madjac74 Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 Exactly! Not all men are shallllllllllow! But, lol, I love to see many of these men who are putting Paris Hilton down....if she slinked up to one of them and said, "hey baby," how quickly there pre judgements would go out the door, the want to hate her to hate her phenomenom. Well I sure would party with Paris hilton if given the chance but she isn't anything close to someone I'd want to spend my life with. Intelligence is sexy...I'd go more for Natalie Portman type
grkBoy Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 Bill Gates is a poor example. He's one of the richest men in the world, so even then that has to come into play to up his attractiveness to women. I'm not saying his wife is a gold digger, but I'll bet money he's had plenty of GDs stepping up to him. Plus I wonder if his wife would have given him a shot if he was just some lowly $50K programmer? She was in a high position herself in her career. When people here speak of the "top men", we speak of the tall/hot/wealthy/exciting men most women want. IMHO, I don't fault them for being in the spot they are. In all honestly almost any man could do it if they're willing to work out and diet regularly as well as apply and work hard to make a lot of money. Plus toss in learning solid social skills so you are charming everywhere you go. Some guys are just jealous and won't really look at their own shortcomings, so they label any guy who does well with women a "jerk" or "bad boy", instantly thinking he's probably a playa and that's why he gets the girls. It's narrow-minded thinking. And yes, there are women who do chase bonna-fide jerks and continue to perpetuate the cycle of "damaged women" later in life and guys believing the only way to attract women is to be a jerk. I only come down on women who chase the "top guys" when they continually end up alone/disappointed/burned. When they are women who think they can attain one of these men, but those guys have all decreed her a big "no way" or "I'll only bang her". That's when I tell those women to rethink their selection criteria.
dasein Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 Well look at Donald Trump.....he is extremely homely, but still married one of the most beautiful women imho, both rich, but both have different mentalities when it comes to women. This is one of the hilarious misperceptions of women I always wonder about. Donald Trump is a man in his mid 60s, and despite the opinions of people who have gotten their entire aesthetic sense looking at models in fashion magazines, has never been remotely "homely" in his life, and this is objective fact, not opinion. The man has always been above average looking for his age. Google up some pics of him in his 30s or 40s if you don't believe me. Yet, I have seen many women call someone like Donald Trump "homely" and then in the next breath declare that they wonder why their 220 pound GF never has any dates because she is "so beautiful" (despite her double chins, "sow rolls" under her arms and a cockeye). It's been a fairly constant observation of women in how they characterize attractiveness over the years... extremely forgiving of female appearance (if the girl is no threat), extremely harsh on female appearance if the woman is considered a threat, and universally harsher on male appearance than female... until they get ready for the nest and then the baldness and poochy belly get overlooked provided the wallet is "ripped" enough. When I read an OP like this, it, together with some of the other things women say about male appearance here and the pictures they post, makes me wonder whether women can in fact actually tell the difference to any objective degree, between "top men" and "not top men?" Sometimes I think female attraction is almost entirely contextual, and not empirical or objective.
Elysian Powder Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 (edited) After reading many posts written by guys that all the top guys have the super looking chicks. It is extremely silly. Many if not the majority of top men are not out running around and marrying 20 year old women and bashing women in an all out fashion or viewing life and women as a Blow up doll. A great example is Bill Gates, one of the richest and intelligent men out there, (maybe intelligence is the *key here). He has it all, and he married a woman who while may be a charming and beautiful woman to many, but if to be put on a scale of 1-10, would fall significantly low on that scale. He could have married anyone he wanted, but he did not go for a blow up doll. I also know many men personally who have lost wives to illness and so on, who were extremely prominent, who by gosh!, remarried women in their own age group when they could have dated many golddigger to just get off. I would really like to hear and am interested on thoughts of what makes this difference in mentality among men??????? We're not saying that the top of the top only encompasses money as the culprit for their rise to the top of the top.... The most beautiful of the women from Hollywood are dating very tall, very handsome, very fit men. An attractive man doesn't need money to bang average women. To an attractive man, being good-looking is not enough to land an easy lay if the woman he wants shares the quality of his looks. A very attractive man can bed a good-looking woman almost without an effort. A very good looking man, with all of the physical characteristics that women love, will find it hard to land a very good-looking woman. From the point of being a good-looking woman and up, a man needs more than his physical presentation. That's when money comes to play. To score a very attractive woman, the man needs looks and fame and huge amounts of money. That is the top of the top within the male population. The richest men in the world have the most to lose by picking beautiful women. Marriage to an average woman might instill a certain degree of security to the rich man's life, but it's based on an illusion, and many, many of the extremely wealthy use the services of top notch prostitutes - and remain married. Well look at Donald Trump.....he is extremely homely, but still married one of the most beautiful women imho, both rich, but both have different mentalities when it comes to women. Hahaaha, good joke, bro. Mr. Trump looks better than most men his own age, and he's more healthy and more sexually active than many, many guys much younger than him. Thanks for mentioning Mr. Trump. He married rich women and he still lost huge numbers and properties to the ex-leeches. So much for marrying women his equal to prevent paying alimony. Phil Collins as a very ugly man married equally ugly women and they all took dozens and dozens of millions. Bloke should have just met a bunch of young, attractive women, and spend that money on getting as much sex as possible. Woody Allen, Prince charles, and the rest of the equally rich and equally ugly do not belong to the top of the top. They lack physical perfection. Mel Gibson, Brad Pitt, Jon Bon Jovi, Gerard Butler and many more; are the nobility of the top. The very top of the top. They gather looks, power, extreme wealth, and natural influence over a woman's clitoris. That is the top of the top. The Kings of the universe. Edited September 5, 2011 by Elysian Powder
rafallus Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 (edited) After reading many posts written by guys that all the top guys have the super looking chicks. It is extremely silly. Many if not the majority of top men are not out running around and marrying 20 year old women and bashing women in an all out fashion or viewing life and women as a Blow up doll. A great example is Bill Gates, one of the richest and intelligent men out there, (maybe intelligence is the *key here). He has it all, and he married a woman who while may be a charming and beautiful woman to many, but if to be put on a scale of 1-10, would fall significantly low on that scale. He could have married anyone he wanted, but he did not go for a blow up doll. I also know many men personally who have lost wives to illness and so on, who were extremely prominent, who by gosh!, remarried women in their own age group when they could have dated many golddigger to just get off. I would really like to hear and am interested on thoughts of what makes this difference in mentality among men??????? Maybe that is a pretty big hint, that you shouldn't treat male gender as an uniform entity, and start considering these aspects on an individual basis instead. You know, just saying. Edited September 5, 2011 by rafallus
Woggle Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 Prince William married Kate, while attractive, very far from being a super model or vixen like Paris Hilton. He did not waiver that way and thought with his big head! Kate is way better looking than Paris Hilton. I do agree with the premise though that men are not as shallow as some people think. Bill and Melinda Gates are class acts.
Woggle Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 Exactly! Not all men are shallllllllllow! But, lol, I love to see many of these men who are putting Paris Hilton down....if she slinked up to one of them and said, "hey baby," how quickly there pre judgements would go out the door, the want to hate her to hate her phenomenom. No I would not. There is nothing whatsoever appealing about her. Michelle Pfieffer on the other hand is still hot.
Elysian Powder Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 What makes a man a 'top' man anyway? Money makes him a top man. Good-looks, height, money,fame, power, fitness = top of the top. The kind of man who can get non-famous 18y. Angelina Jolies without breaking a sweat.
ascendotum Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 Prince William married Kate, while attractive, very far from being a super model or vixen like Paris Hilton. He did not waiver that way and thought with his big head! Will and Kate are not a good example. William the future King cannot just marry anyone that takes his fancy. Breeding and background are so important for the prospective queen and intense media scrutiny and also the expectations of the British people. She's a smashing girl. He did well. It would be interesting to see what sort of woman, Bill Gates would marry if something went wrong with his marriage. Lets see who his son dates when he's older. I think you will find there is a big difference between the women IT entrepreneurs marry and say celebrities marry for instance. Saw an article on Sean Penn and his new girlfriend the other day. Attractive woman just a bit older than his daughter, what a shock.
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