jordjones Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 I was dumped on July 3rd. Chased somewhat pathetically for about 10 days. Then went NC. She's contacted me two times, but it's been a few weeks. I think I'm about to break NC with a funny email/story I heard that reminded me of her. My decision to do this is largely based on the fact that I have accepted the fact that we'll probably never be together again. While I believe she is still single, I am fine with her dating other guys. Over the past couple of months, I have transformed myself - I'm working out, applying to law school, and generally trying to become a better person. Losing her has been good for me. While I still view her as the prettiest girl in the room, I know that I will eventually love again, and might find someone whom I am more compatible with. I don't plan on telling her any of this. But I've gotten my confidence back, and I just want to have a laugh with her, eventually. Following the breakup, she expressed a desire to remain friends. Maybe that was bull****. If she rejects my friendly overtures, her loss...because I'm back to being good company.
vamous5 Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 You said your back to being good company. Don't break that. It's been 45 days, that's a long way to come and a big accomplishment. You've come this far, don't do it.
M2155 Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 (edited) You sound like you're doing great. Find someone else to have a laugh with. Let her miss and wonder, when she finds out how much you are improving the loss will hit her if she really wanted to stay friends. Edited September 5, 2011 by M2155
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