LilThalie Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 I came back from my vacation on Friday and found a message on FB from my ex. It is such a ridiculous message, I don't know if I should laugh or cry, considering that I spend quite some time with him when we were together. We haven't spoken and been NC for 6 weeks straight. I ignored when he was leaving for his vacation and I honestly believed I would never hear from him again as I will be moving to France and he will get is Master's degree in London. Now I find that message saying "Have fun in France. Love". It feels weird to get to short message from him that clearly shows that he isn't even interested in how I am doing. Not that I would have told him anyway. I'm somehow satisfied because it's confirmation that he thinks about me from time to time too. I won't get in touch and I won't reply. I don't even think I need advice, I just had to get it off my chest. I will follow through with NC. So, thanks for taking your time to read this. Cheers, Thalie
smudge21 Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 I read it too, and nice to see someone else not diving in when an ex throws some bread crumbs on the floor.
Author LilThalie Posted September 5, 2011 Author Posted September 5, 2011 Haha, so yeah, thanks for reading!! I realized that it hit me harder than I wanted to admit at first. I wondered why he was contacting me like this when he was supposed to be vacationing in Brazil. Now I heard from a mutual friend that he cancelled his vacation and came back for whatever reason. I felt like contacting him and asking what was going on for a couple of hours. I didn't and I won't. Still it was a set back that made me realize that I still care about this guy a lot. I don't cry over him anymore,in fact, I haven't for more than four weeks, but I still feel sad that things went this way. It's better but it's been painful. Just these couple of words from him, showed me how much good NC has done to me. I will continue.
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