ganghis Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 (edited) My ex and I have been broken up for 5 months, we remain friends, and remain in contact. We have good days and bad days. We are maintaining a friendship and both accept the breakup. She has had a boyfriend for months and refuses to let me know about him, even though I do know and I am happy for her. Yet she denies that they are together. Why? Why would she choose to lie to me about him at this point? Any ideas? Edited September 5, 2011 by ganghis
silly_panda Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 This is just my humble and personal opinion... 1. Maybe she doesn't wanna hurt you... But yet again, I think this is very unlikely cause you both had already broken up... She should be honest with you... 2. Maybe she is trying to string you along... She don't wan you to leave her side and is trying to see if her new relationship work out fine... If it didn't, she got someone to 'fall' back to... 3. Maybe she don't wanna let you know about this guy cause afraid that you will do/say anything bad about him, hence, hurt your friendship with her... 4. Maybe she does not have a relationship with this guy... But seriously dude, she has all the rite to not tell you anything... And you can't really force her if she don't wanna let you know... Even if you get to know, what good does it bring..? You should just stop it and let it go... You are happy for her happiness rite..? Leave it as it is... She will tell you if she wanna...
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