Dblock10 Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 this is a previous post of mine about a second chance with my ex. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=292300&highlight=dblock10&page=2 and basically it is now 31 days nc from either of us... she leaves in 20 days time for 6 months. for some reason, its playing on my mind that when we spoke on the phone, before we spoke in person, we agreed on a break as apposed to a break up whilst she's away travelling. But when i went to see her in person, to tell her i want to stay with her etc, but we ended up completely breaking up... because i told her breaks don't work and one person always gets hurt. As this happened to me in the past- where the girl found someone else and left me. also it seemed like this break pretty much was a breakup. did i do the right thing? she leaves on the 25th this month. day 31 of no contact. do i speak to her before she goes, wishing her well or wait until her birthday which is a month-ish into the trip? some back ground information to the situation http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t290475/?highlight=dblock10 also a week after seeing her that day, my nan passed away. i have still not heard from her. advice?
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