hopelessromantic07 Posted May 6, 2004 Share Posted May 6, 2004 how can i make a guy fall in love with me? i really like this guy i've been seeing for two months now. but i am not quite sure if he is taking me seriously. he said he's not seeing anyone else, and that he's being exclusive w/ me. i want him to fall in love with me, but i don't know how. because i know i am certainly falling in love with him. Link to post Share on other sites
niko1999 Posted May 6, 2004 Share Posted May 6, 2004 Sadly, you cant MAKE anyone fall in love with you. it is an emotion we have no cotrol over. But you have also only been dating him for two months, love does not happen at this stage, though we may think it is. Give it time, and enjoy the time you have with him. If the time is right and the emotions are there, it will happen. Link to post Share on other sites
bluechocolate Posted May 6, 2004 Share Posted May 6, 2004 can i make a guy fall in-love with me? no but you can try real hard Link to post Share on other sites
Muzzy2003 Posted May 7, 2004 Share Posted May 7, 2004 Let me tell you my biggest mistake...i tried to make someone love me and he cares about me alot...right now, we are not together because i kept pushing it on him. Be careful on what you say, it can ruin the relationship...the best thing i have learned through it all is instead of worrying about trying to make him fall in love with you, just have fun with him. don't worry about the love thing just yet. The best lovers are those who are friends fist. If hes happy just hanging out with you...then trust me, hes not going to want to leave. It's only been two months so relax...PLEASE!!! I just finished with an issue similar to this. Luckily, my man doesn't want to leave even though i want it to be more serious than what it is (we have going together for six months). Have fun, take things day by day, and don't think about it too much or else its gonna get to you! Good Luck! Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted May 7, 2004 Share Posted May 7, 2004 you can't make him fall in love, but you can not do things that'd prevent him from doing so. these include: - spending too much time together, incl. online/phone time - showing too much feelings, being too open (2 months is too soon!) - giving him too much space in your life etc. basically, the harder you try, the less likely it is that he'll fall for you... so try hard not to try too hard! my 2c, -yes Link to post Share on other sites
sportsloving Posted May 7, 2004 Share Posted May 7, 2004 You can always do a google search for Love Potions, slip him one, and hope it doesn't wear off (I am just kidding!) Actually you can't do anything to make a person love you other than be yourself. If they can't love the person you are, they aren't worth having anyways Link to post Share on other sites
LILUIL Posted May 7, 2004 Share Posted May 7, 2004 I understand how you feel and would just like to say, give it time. Isn't it such joy to miss a loved one so much and you try hard not to call him and after let's say 10 torturing days he calls and you realise he misses you too and he called you. The thing we want to hang on to most is the very thing we should let go, see if it comes back to us. Like catching a butterfly, sit still, let it come sit on your head and then you can gently close your hands in on it and its yours to keep. Cheers, SH2803geeDS Link to post Share on other sites
hopelessromantic07 Posted May 7, 2004 Share Posted May 7, 2004 thank you all for some advice. i guess i just wanted to know where i stand. from the look of things, it's pretty good. time will be on my side. it's just hard to NOT call him everyday but that's what i've been trying to do. i don't want to look needy/clingy. it's a torture to not hear his voice everyday. :-( he's a very active person w/ a lot of hobbies. but he has yet to invite me to go with him. so i guess, if and when he does feel comfortable, he will invite me. right??? sorry about the babbling. i just haven't fallen in love w/ somebody in such a long time (4years actually). he doesn't know about how i feel though. i can't, i won't bring it up unless he brings it up first. i am not used to this. im used to guys professing their feelings to me early on in the relationship. that's why this is torturing me..... *sigh.. Link to post Share on other sites
Pyrannaste Posted May 7, 2004 Share Posted May 7, 2004 Originally posted by hopelessromantic07 how can i make a guy fall in love with me? Just be yourself. If he doesn't, he's not the right guy for you Link to post Share on other sites
Muzzy2003 Posted May 8, 2004 Share Posted May 8, 2004 i am not used to this. im used to guys professing their feelings to me early on in the relationship. that's why this is torturing me..... *sigh.. I know exactly how you feel. I'm the same exact way. i have much more stronger feelings for my boyfriend than he does for me. But, if you want to look at it in a good way. not rushing the relationship is very good. it seems that this guy tends to think more with his head than his heart (maybe until he falls in love). generally, by you relaxing and him taking it slowly, is a very good thing. Relationshonships last longer that way. I think, by the looks of things, patience is a virtue!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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