Author AHardDaysNight Posted September 6, 2011 Author Posted September 6, 2011 I simply don't have enough experience to assert one way or the other. However, in my experience, every single girl that has been attracted to me (usually teenagers or early 20 somethings) have rejected me for being "too boring." That being said, I've noticed that these women never find love, or stability, and always flit from one relationship to the next. They never find love, in other words.
wilsonx Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 (edited) That being said, I've noticed that these women never find love, or stability, and always flit from one relationship to the next. They never find love, in other words. For the ladies reading this thread, there are guys that do this too, its not gender specific. This is very good thing you noticed and guess what type of women you stay away from? These. These are instant red flags for anyone looking for a long term relationship. Let me tell you that there are people at your age that want what you are looking for and you just have to go out and keep looking and don't give up. Another thing, always reject the rejector. If they think you are too boring, always tell yourself they aren't good enough for you anyways, you have higher standards. The biggest rejection line you can give a girl that is a bitch to you or calls you boring is tell her straight up "You just have low self esteem" That will put any bitch girl/woman in her place instantly and she will look down at the ground and agree with you in some way. Most bitches are bitches because of that one reason they have extremely low self esteem Edited September 6, 2011 by wilsonx
ScienceGal Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 I simply don't have enough experience to assert one way or the other. However, in my experience, every single girl that has been attracted to me (usually teenagers or early 20 somethings) have rejected me for being "too boring." That being said, I've noticed that these women never find love, or stability, and always flit from one relationship to the next. They never find love, in other words. How old are you? I believe that some younger women are just emotionally immature. I used to be all over the map emotionally. I'm late 20s now, and am definitely looking for a stable relationship. Now, if I could just find someone that I am really attracted to that is a kind gentleman! And as far as those women... it's like the Harvey Danger song lyric "If you're bored then you're boring". Forget them.
wilsonx Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 How old are you? I believe that some younger women are just emotionally immature. I used to be all over the map emotionally. I'm late 20s now, and am definitely looking for a stable relationship. Now, if I could just find someone that I am really attracted to that is a kind gentleman! And as far as those women... it's like the Harvey Danger song lyric "If you're bored then you're boring". Forget them. ASL Sciencegal =) I know you
Author AHardDaysNight Posted September 6, 2011 Author Posted September 6, 2011 I am 28. For the record, I have noticed the same. The younger women don't seem to know what they want. I am still in college, which means I'm surrounded by the younger crowd. However, I can't wait to get out, get a job, and be around older women.
ScienceGal Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 ASL Sciencegal =) I know you 29/F/a little far from Virginia I am 28. For the record, I have noticed the same. The younger women don't seem to know what they want. I am still in college, which means I'm surrounded by the younger crowd. However, I can't wait to get out, get a job, and be around older women. I was in college the first time I got GIGS. I left the most decent man I have ever known to be with someone else. I don't regret leaving him, but I should have left long before I met someone new, I just didn't want to be alone. And the guy I left him for turned out to be an alcoholic and it was the worst relationship ever. I ended up leaving this alcoholic after 3 years and stayed single for close to a year. Being alone wasn't great, but it was a learning/growing experience for me. The point is, I was too young to appreciate anything good. Not all young women are this way, but many are. Are there other ways outside of college that you can meet women your age? Any social clubs? There are women that are looking for and are ready to appreciate a good man.
Author AHardDaysNight Posted September 6, 2011 Author Posted September 6, 2011 Right now, I'm kind of isolated. Moved back home to take care of my grandma, and kind of left the whole "social scene" I had at my apartment location. Not that I took advantage of it really, having social anxiety, but it still is extremely depressing.
Elysian Powder Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 (edited) For the record, I have noticed the same. The younger women don't seem to know what they want. They do know what they want. And they're getting it from whom they want it. I dunno. I don't think you'll fare better with older women you're practically a virgin and you won't be able to take a woman out since you are taking care of your grandma. I mean, the vast majority of men do not suffer from social anxiety, they aren't virgins at the age of 28, and they have a somewhat understanding of how women and men work. Do you have money? Search for professional help. Edited September 6, 2011 by Elysian Powder
KR10N Posted September 6, 2011 Posted September 6, 2011 As long as the guy isn't a complete dilhole I really couldn't care less if he was the type to open a door for me. I'm not handicapped.
ScienceGal Posted September 7, 2011 Posted September 7, 2011 I'd like a guy to bring me flowers the first time he picks me up. I think that would be sweet
SillyS Posted September 7, 2011 Posted September 7, 2011 I'm a little bit younger (23), and I appreciate kind gentlemen. I just don't require it. I have always had the guys that appear to be gentlemen, till they have you and then they make the switch. Before you know it, you are getting doors slammed in your face and things go rather bad. I just require consistency now, it's a good thing to be and I appreciate it a lot if you are but I will not hold it against you if you are not this way as a guy. Just be honest from the beginning and treat me the same way every single time and it's no problem for me either way. I'm not that selective yet. I'd like a guy to bring me flowers the first time he picks me up. I think that would be sweet Didn't romance die in the 90s? I'm allergic to certain flowers, and chocolate makes my stomach hurt. So I always get upset during Valentine's day, it's attempted murder. I tend to just like thoughtful things that are more low key. Like getting me starbucks when I'm studying, or drawing me a bath when I'm sore, and even breakfast in bed on a random friday off work.
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