SunnyTrail Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 Been in a relationship with current bf for just a couple months shy of a year now.He will talk about his ex and the negativity she brought him, as well as about experiences or stories about her even when talking about completely non-ex related subjects because he does not have that much relationship experience and that's the only one he has anything to base anything off of and they haven't talked for a year. I'm trying to figure out what exactly he liked about her despite the fact that 90% of what he's told me about her paints her like a naive schoolgirl who sleeps with anything that moves and is extremely selfish. She broke up with him in a horrible scarred-for-life kinda way. Ever since we've gone out I've known about that past relationship. Because of this I haven't fully trusted anything he has said about me and our relationship. We haven't said I love you to each other. Sometimes I want to, but I feel it would not be returned. I'm very tired and sometimes think of begging him to break up with me because I believe he is not, never has been and never will be attracted to me for who I am, and he won't miss me because his ex is more important to him than I am. I would miss him though. This is more a rant than a question, I don't expect replies, sorry.
threebyfate Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 SunnyTrail, this guy doesn't sound like a keeper and your relationship dynamic sounds exhausting. So what's stopping you from dumping him instead of expecting him to dump you?
Author SunnyTrail Posted September 4, 2011 Author Posted September 4, 2011 My apologies, I did not mean to post this, was in a very bad mood at the time.
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