shapp Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 The other morning he left about 2am came back in about an hour, then left again at 5am and came back at 9pm. He came in saying how so sorry he was about how he been treating me and that I didnt deserve to be treated like that anyway he blew his nose all night long and when i got up to go to church i put something in the trash i seen nothing but bloody tissue, i felt so bad and worried for him. After I got from church I ask him about it to me he got a little uptight and he said it was from his sinuses and if i wanted to i can go get a test I guess to test him, anyway him saying that i felt like he was using cocaine. He have used in the past and always around his friend who does it everyday. he be so paranoid and he drink alot too. and gets really mean and nasty. last night he said he was not going to drink anymore he didnt bring up coke i guess he too embarrass dont want me to know but i see the signs thats why i asked him. i think he is in denial and dont want to admit the truth.
Nohbody Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 This sounds like a lousy position to be in. Have you talked about his drinking with him, and how he acts when he drinks? Do you feel safe? Do you think he will change for the better? Seriously think about those questions. If you can't definitively answer yes to both of them, you may need to consider getting away from him for a while - for your own good.
carhill Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 Contact your local Al-Anon and Nar-Anon support groups. They'll help you. IMO, he's using.
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