joeyanna Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 Hey all, hope you're all well! Not sure what to do next. As I said in an earlier post, the guy I have been in contact with for a couple of months asked to give him a couple of weeks space after I became all insecure on him and sent some silly texts (yes, that old chestnut again). Anyway, now the two weeks are almost up and I don't know what to do, I want to get in touch bit I'm a bit scared too in case a) I don't get a reply or b) I don't like the reply he sends. My questions are, would he say lets get back in touch after a couple of weeks if he really didn't want to, or was that just him being polite? And should I take the fact that he's not blocked me or deleted my emails to him on the dating site as a good sign? I know I tend to delete messages from guys I'm not interested in but do men?? I've learned a lot about myself over the past couple of weeks, mainly about the reasons for my behaviour and how I would act in the future but I would really like to try and at least be friends with this man. Any thoughts would be appreciated. Thank you in advance and take care. X
Imageiko Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 My questions are, would he say lets get back in touch after a couple of weeks if he really didn't want to, or was that just him being polite? Very possible. I don't think contacting him first will help your cause at all. I think if things are to move forward he has to contact you. If you came off as needy/clingy already sending another message will automatically come off that way in his head even if it shouldn't. Since this is on an online dating site I'd move on if I were you.
Author joeyanna Posted September 4, 2011 Author Posted September 4, 2011 Very possible. I don't think contacting him first will help your cause at all. I think if things are to move forward he has to contact you. If you came off as needy/clingy already sending another message will automatically come off that way in his head even if it shouldn't. Since this is on an online dating site I'd move on if I were you. We spoke at length about things and he said he thought that he was being over sensitive as he had a lot on at the moment (I gather from what he's told me that he's a little confused about his sense of self after splitting up from him wife etc). We don't only communicate through the dating site, we talk and text as well. He was the one that told me to get in touch after a couple of weeks so I don't think he'd think I was being needy but who knows? Thanks x
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