Ihateboys Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 Ive been with my boyfriend for about seven months. We generally get on really great but recently he went on a lads holiday. I've always ha trust issues but he assured me there was nothing to worry about. Now all these pictures have appeared on Facebook of him stradling random girls and doing different sex positions with them. It was obviously a joke and it was a game the reps on holiday asked them to play. He was drunk and said they didn't say what the game would be when he agreed to play it. I know he didn't cheat on me And it's just a game but my heart sunk seeing it. I don't know what to do just now because I feel like he has completely disrespected me. Advice?
antinko Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 Putting the pictures on Facebook (if it was he who did it) is somewhat insensitive. I don't know. What are your boundaries? Have you spoken to him about it? Personally, I don't think I could accept it.
country_gurl Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 So he posted these pictures on his FB page?..........or did someone else post them on theirs and tagged him on them? If he took the time to post them on his own page, that is completely crass and disrespectful, not to mention rather immature. Just out of curiosity, you mentioned that you do have trust issues........what do those stem from? Has he given you any reason in the past to not trust him?
westrock Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 Now all these pictures have appeared on Facebook of him stradling random girls and doing different sex positions with them. It was obviously a joke and it was a game the reps on holiday asked them to play. And you want to be with a guy who acts like this? Why? He was drunk and said they didn't say what the game would be when he agreed to play it. Excuses. He could have stopped any time. This guy has no self control and can't be trusted. And it's just a game but my heart sunk seeing it. I don't know what to do just now because I feel like he has completely disrespected me. Advice? Advice? Stop excusing his behavior as a "game" or a "joke" and then dump him because he has no respect for you.
Author Ihateboys Posted September 4, 2011 Author Posted September 4, 2011 No he didn't add them himself he was just tagged. And I'm 17 and he's 18
Author Ihateboys Posted September 4, 2011 Author Posted September 4, 2011 (edited) Oh and the trust issues came from a previous boyfriend. Things got so bad with him that I ended up with depression and tried to end my life. I'm still recovering but am significantly better. I don't want my heart to rule over my head this time because that clearly did not work. We have spoken about it and he apologised profusely, as you would. Edited September 4, 2011 by Ihateboys
Professor X Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 Oh and the trust issues came from a previous boyfriend. Things got so bad with him that I ended up with depression and tried to end my life. I'm still recovering but am significantly better. I don't want my heart to rule over my head this time because that clearly did not work. We have spoken about it and he apologised profusely, as you would. He did disrespect you and to add insult to injury he posted it in public. You need to decide if it worth break up over. Some might, some mightn't. I would.
Yellow_Duck'y Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 Tacky, insensitive and disrespectful.
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