quietGuy13 Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 I know i'm not dateable with the general population but I managed to get a date and continuing. well but maybe that's cause it's more of a friend then romantic date. Anyways, but for girls looking for romance and love,, what makes a Guy dateable? Is it his great job, or personality? What if he has neither(like me)? Or what if i have no job, no personality, but I do say alittle and it makes sense? That's not enough right? Or what if, I have a good heart and mind but I can't have sex due to medical reasons? Then i'm not dateable? Anyways, share what you think. And just to let you know, the current me is: Unemployed, live with parents, not a good speaker, shy and negative but nice person. don't talk much, don't have much to say but when i say I'm simple. Don't have career aspirations, except of getting a job and making money.
antinko Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 "I'm not datable with the general population" makes you sound like you have the bubonic plague or something. Seriously, come on now, you are datable with the general population. I know plenty of people in your situation who are dating.
goldenboy7115 Posted September 5, 2011 Posted September 5, 2011 If I was on a date, I wouldn't open up with all that, but you could explain your circumstances if the question comes up. I think starting with that makes it sound like you have a reason not to date or be happy. And who wants to be with somebody that's a downer? I guess the question is, do you feel like your undateable because of those things?
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