Mr. Savage Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 It's been about 3 months since I went through a nasty break-up of sorts. She was my first girlfriend and it was tough. I didn't have alot of experience with girls and this is kinda my year of blossoming so to speak. Last night I went on my first date since the break-up. It actually went alot better than I thought. There were very few moments of awkward silence which is good. Towards the end of the night when we were saying goodbye we had a nice hug and we kind of embraced a little longer than normal. I didn't know if I should of went in for a kiss or not. She looked like she might be ok with it but I didn't want to seem pushy on the first date. What do you think? Also ladies is it a sign of attraction when a girl keeps flipping all he hair to one side and exposing her neck? She kept doing this all night. Thanks!
goldenboy7115 Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 Yes, if a girl plays with her hair, it's a subtle sign she's into you. Your first date? I would have given her an innocent kiss on the side of the cheek to say good night. It always beats a hand shake and isn't seen as too forward. Have you got a second date lined up yet?
Author Mr. Savage Posted September 4, 2011 Author Posted September 4, 2011 Yup, we are going to see a movie tonight. I think I will be initiating some contact during the movie, maybe putting my arm around her or holding her hand. Then we will see how that goes and if well I would love to go for a kiss at the end of the night. I just dont know if we do kiss how aggressive i should be. Slight tounge? no tounge? Just let it happen? I'm probably over analyzing all this but like I said I don't have alot of experience and this kind of stuff runs through my brain throughout the day. Ya know.
Author Mr. Savage Posted September 4, 2011 Author Posted September 4, 2011 anyone have thoughts on my last post?
goldenboy7115 Posted September 7, 2011 Posted September 7, 2011 Definitely try the arm around her shoulder routine. Just lay it on the chair and see if she wants to get closer to you, then put it around her shoulders and pull her into you. Snuggle If that happens, I would def' go for a kiss at the end of the date but no tongue yet. Keep it clean. And you will have your third date, where you will get "closer." Be the gentlemen..it will work wonders. Then let us know what happens.
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