ItsOnlyMe57 Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 I am 15 years older than a guy whom I had a fling with in 2009. He was fresh out of prison and was introduced to me by his friend. I fell really hard for this guy, so much so, that I spent a ton of money on him. Only to have him disrespect me time after time after time. he would disappear for months at time and come back; He did this at least 3 times. I paid for trips to Boston for both of us and I paid for him to come see me in Texas. He lives in Louisiana. I bought this guy clothes and let him use a second vehicle of mine in Louisiana. he dented the passenger side of the truck and burnt the inside interior and got a red light ticket on it. He would constantly lie in order to get money from me and lie for the sake of lying. I finally got up the courage to just cut off ALL communication. He has been texting and calling and texting and calling and all to NO avail. I have not talked to this guy since 4 months ago. His latest game was today and it was to tell me he is in my city and that he wants to see me. whenever i did see him, he would complain that I was over sexed that I only wanted him for one thing. He never ever once bought me so much as a dead flower from the ground. The nerve of him to keep contacting me. I don't answer him anymore. Why does he keep on contacting me in spite of me not answering him anymore? I did love him. I still do. But I will never ever talk to this guy again. what do you think is wrong with this guy?
wilsonx Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 Uhhh whats wrong? you fell in love with a younger guy that just got released from prison? What can you do about it now? Change your number?
sarajean1984 Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 I do not know the whole situation...but it sounds like he was using you the whole time, especially if you hooked up with him straight out of prison. He needed someone to be there for him whenever he needed. I think the actions he has taken towards you...such as calling when he's in town...telling you that you are using him. Are actions that guilty people do...like when someone is cheating how they always accuse their partner of cheating. He is a user. I am thrilled to hear that you will never contact him again or see him. Sound like you are saving yourself a whole hell of a lot of trouble. Take care.
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