sarajean1984 Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 Well, I am 27. Was with my ex for almost 2 years. The whole relationship was filled with so much trouble. Ranging from sexual problems, to differences in parenting, to nothing in common. There was a lot of love for a very long time, but it slowly started falling apart. The sexual problems were unbearable. He would never try to get me off, could not perform most of the time. Just all sorts of stuff. Main problem being that we purposely made a baby last december which is due in the next 3 weeks. He just walked out and left two months ago, tomorrow. Has not contacted me at all. I still feel such a void, I am honestly having a very hard time of letting go, and can't stop thinking about him and wishing he was here. I was wondering if anyone has any advice? I will take any advice at this point. I already know that he is not a good guy, for the situation he left me in with no car, 7 months pregnant, no money...when I was a stay at home mom. Left my two other children. I know he is not a good person. I really just need some help on making myself feel better and making myself move on. I have not contacted him either...in case that would be a question. Also, his leaving was pre planned on his part...he already had a place to move, has a good job and took our only car. I repeat has not contacted me at all other then to get a laptop that was purchased by his parents. He does not want to be involved with our son either.
mike588 Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 You should of got out of this before "making a baby" I'm sorry for saying that but I feel it's true, not trying to be a jerk. I don't know what else to say,,
Nohbody Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 Oh, Albuquerque. My advice is to find out how you can legally compel him to pay you child support if you decide to keep the baby. Look into single parent support groups in your area, and make sure you are staying as healthy as possible for the baby's sake. Whether you like it or not, the baby is the major focus right now, and its welfare trumps everything else. Focus on that, and I wish you the best.
Author sarajean1984 Posted September 4, 2011 Author Posted September 4, 2011 You should of got out of this before "making a baby" I'm sorry for saying that but I feel it's true, not trying to be a jerk. I don't know what else to say,, No you are not being a jerk! It is the truth...however like most women...I believed the lies. Sadly, this cannot be undone.
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