Alexander12345 Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Hello,i would like to introduce myself to you first because i am new to the site.My name is Alexander,i am 15 and i live in Serbia. High school just started 3 days ago and,i've got a class with 22 girls and 4 guys.Interesting.I've met every single person from the class and i've met this girl from the class that i have been talking with on facebook before the school started.Classic friendly talk. When we 1st saw each other in class,we were both a bit shy (im naturally a shy person but not very much) and we haven't talked for the 1st day.Maybe like 2 or 3 times,in 5 hours.Day later,we talked a bit more. My friend and me were talking about this Youth organization that our High school has,which takes us students to Switzerland for a month in April. I asked him will SHE join the Youth Club. He said yes,and he asked me can i text her because his credit was depleted. I said sure,and got her number. I sent her the location of the youth club and all information,she replied with a Thank you, and a "kiss" smiley. That move got me into thinking that she was just friendly. Alright. Today,this morning, she seemed to be waiting for someone in the school garden,i thought that person was me.Haha. We kissed each other in the cheek,but she didnt seem like the most happiest person,reasons Unknown. Major difference was between our communication this morning. We talked MUCH more,and when she was leaving at the bus stop, we gave eachother the same peck kiss. From now we have been texting each other for the like whole day,from 12 am until midnight now,both on Facebook and Texts. We flirted a bit,and i thought this was the hit. I have a chance of getting down with her. Until she said that she has said to me that one guy who went to her today in school,THAT HE LIKES HER,JUST LIKE ME. Then all my dreams crushed down.End of my fantasy,i have no chance.I went offline,i was pretty pissed off. I didnt reply,and she started texting me "What are you doing?", "I am bored" and stuff like that. It looked like she really cared about me,although i am not sure. She probably knows that i have a crush on her from our chatting,but i am not sure does SHE HAVE A CRUSH ON ME. I am a pretty normal guy,im NOT a Jerk or an *******,i may be only 15 but i look older,i am about 5'9 which is above average for teens here,im a built athletic,she is a dancer,5'7 and a blonde. What do you think? What should i do?! I have doubts,but i think that she has some kind of a relationship with me even if we have known each other for like 3 days. I will appreciate all your answers,and will listen to all tips. Thank you a lot.
goldenboy7115 Posted September 4, 2011 Posted September 4, 2011 Hi Alexander. I remember those times Did you say 22 girls to 4 guys? Nice ratio. You obviously like each other, so don't pull away. If she texts you, text back. If she says she's bored, suggest something to do together. By spending time with her, you are giving yourself a chance to be the No. 1 in her mind. This should be an exciting time in your life,,give her,,give yourself the chance. And please, don't be a jerk! Like I was back then..all those damn hormones really can screw things up.
Author Alexander12345 Posted September 4, 2011 Author Posted September 4, 2011 Hi Alexander. I remember those times Did you say 22 girls to 4 guys? Nice ratio. You obviously like each other, so don't pull away. If she texts you, text back. If she says she's bored, suggest something to do together. By spending time with her, you are giving yourself a chance to be the No. 1 in her mind. This should be an exciting time in your life,,give her,,give yourself the chance. And please, don't be a jerk! Like I was back then..all those damn hormones really can screw things up. Thank you for the advice and your conclusion! I won't stop. :)
Author Alexander12345 Posted September 4, 2011 Author Posted September 4, 2011 Ok,so theres definitely something what i though off going on. She was being friendly. After i wrote her a heart and a smiley on her wall,she just texted me, "what kind of message is that on my wall?" i then realised everything. Its time to give up.
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