Romantic_Lefty Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Hey, its been awhile since i've posted here but i've run into another speed bump. You can see my other posts to catch you up as this one is probably going to be long anyways. A short recap though is that my ex broke up with me before the summer, we tried getting back together once and she got cold feet, have been doing nc unless she contacts me. awhile ago she said she wanted to try to be friends yet and maybe in the fall something would happen. I kept up with nc until a little while ago after she texted me. school has started now and one night she texted feeling emotional and stuff. we talked and i got out of her that it hurts her that we are nothing. not friends not together, nothing. after more talking she confessed she still has strong feelings for me and thinks about getting back together. yet she says she wants to stay 'good friends' so she can figure out if thats what she really wants and if so 100 percent commit to me. yet, before that and now afterwards, she doesn't act like my friend. so i am reallly confuzzled here! Do i try to be her friend if i want her back if shes still thinking about reconciliation? or could this be some other game she is playing since afterwards she doesn't really seem to act like my friend? any and all advice is greatly appreciated.
BeenHereBefore Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 NC has got you to this point, where she is missing you and her feelings for you are coming back to the surface, and she is thinking about getting back together....don't accept anything less. A wise man once said "If something is working keep doing it." I envy your situation. Best of luck.
Author Romantic_Lefty Posted September 4, 2011 Author Posted September 4, 2011 True words of wisdom. Thank you. I wish you the best of luck too!
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