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I've been reading the forum here for awhile and I never signed up until now.

 

I've been dating a girl since early August and every thing is going wonderfully. We've been having good conversations, laughing and kissing has pretty much come naturally. I've never really had success with dating, this is the furthest I've ever gotten with a girl, so I'm pretty much inexperienced. The issue is I'm 25 and she's 23 and I know she's had a few serious boyfriends in the past. Things are slowly leading up to us sleeping together which while I'm looking forward to I'm a little concerned about.

 

I'm not a virgin, however my experience is pretty much limited to one girl that I slept with 5 or so times. I know people say if the relationship is going well not to worry about sexual performance at the start, but I'm a little afraid of disappointing her. So if things lead up to it should I just admit at the start that I'm inexperienced? Seems like the best approach but would likely kill the mood. Or should I just go with the flow and hope that things work out naturally?

 

I'm sure I'm over thinking things, but I really like this girl and don't want to have problems because of this.

 

Thanks

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