claretandblue66 Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 My GF broke up with me 2 weeks ago, we were seeing each other for 11 months but she lied in the beginning as she was still with her ex and 4 months into relationship I found out she went to Egypt with him for 2 weeks. When she came back she moved in with me and it was amazing. We had plans and was both so happy but because I was insecure I would not trust what she said and began to monitor her until 2 weeks ago she had enough and left. She says I was the 1 for her but refuses to give me another chance and says we are finished. She txt me last night as she was out with friends and said the following: Just to let you know me and the girls havnt gone out we are still in sarahs garden and drinking wine n havin a good old catch up, just wanted to put your mind at rest . . . See I do still care :-) xxxx .........should I have hope and what should I do? Please help! I love her so much
Nohbody Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Just from what you've said, it sounds like she's stringing you along. Read Caliguy's no contact thread ( http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t81399/ ) and implement NC. I won't say there is no hope, but I do think you probably deserve to be treated better, by someone who appreciates you.
silly_panda Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Don't fall for her little messages... Wait it out, go NC and see what happens... But seriously, in my opinion, you got trust issue... If you can't really trust her, you can't really be with her... You know what I mean..? One of the important thing about love is trust... Even if she comes back, will you fully trust her or you still 'monitor' her..? And had you found out anything during your 'monitoring' period..? If you don't get this trust issue fix, the same thing will bound to happen again...
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