ihavelotsofcoconuts Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Ok so here's the deal. I'm currently in a relationship (2 years) with this girl...and she's great. We get along, she's good looking, the sex is good, and this year she's coming to the same college I go to. But I think I'm attracted to someone else. There's this girl...a former classmate of my girlfriend that just blew my mind. I can't get her out of my head. She likes sports and working out just as much as I do (whereas my gf doesn't that much), she has the same music tastes as I do (again, my gf doesn't), and from what I understand we have similar behaviours (assertive, outgoing, confident, ambitious, etc). I'm torn here. One one hand my I can't really break up with my current gf over nothing...she really has been patient and she says she loves me and that she's glad to have me. But do I still feel the same? The fact that I'm actually asking this question, suggests that no...I don't. But I can't break her heart like that. I mean she thinks it's all good, she's coming to the same college as me, and <<poof>> I come out of nowhere and shatter her world. I'd feel terrible and like a douchbag. And on the other hand there's no guarantee that this other girl would be interested in me. After all, a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush right? Ah what the hell am I doing? I just can't get this other girl out of my mind. I constantly find myself looking endlessly on her facebook profile...I'm slightly obsessed with her. But I couldn't bear to break my gf's heart like that. Help a brother out guys/girls. Please?
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