Saures Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 I just got into a long distance relationship, my parents and I moved away to another town 200 miles away from my boyfriend... I've read up about long distance relationships and things you can do together, and we've agreed on a "date night" where we stay in together and go on webcam etc. I'll give an example because its difficult to explain. Basically, we are both keen xbox players, and we both play call of duty, he asked if i wanted to play call of duty tonight, and I agreed. (To me, this means he's dedicated his time to me, its a date, and we've made plans due to the fact we cannot meet in real life currently, so everything we plan is just as significant to as if we were arranging going for a walk) He then says can we play cod now because I'm going out tonight, and this did kind of upset me, I'm really ill at the moment and i just need to rest which is why we agreed on tonight. He said he wouldn't go tonight because I explained to him that we already made plans But I just feel like, its not important enough, when we make plans its like "we can play cod any time", but the problem is, we can't really if he keeps dodging it to go out with his friends... I just feel as if he finds it a lower priority when we make plans rather to when his friends make plans I'm just asking for a bit of advice and an outsiders look on it
madjac74 Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 He made plans with you and you have every right to be upset. It doesn't matter if it is long distance or local, he committed that time to you. You may have had other plans that you cancelled on to spend time with him.
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