Resentment

[xxoo]

he and I are exclusive and she is not, so if ya think about it, I do have multiple partners.

 

He and she are still sleeping together???

 

Now that you have feelings for him, are you ok with that?

 

That would make it a lot easier for me to walk away. I couldn't handle knowing that the man I love sleeps with another woman.

[truckersgirl]

Yeah they do and no, I'm not. I have gotten myself in such a tangled web, and I am planning on getting out of it, he is going to be here tonight and we are going to have nice long talk about this whole situation. And firs and foremost I am going to tell im EXACTLY, how I am feeling....it should be interesting to see how he responds

[wannabdone]

So, maybe I am missing it and it was posted.... but what do the children think you are? Do they have a full understanding of what is going on. Have they sat down and explained that they are in a open marriage?

Also, if she is seeing 6 guys.... does she bring these guys around the children like you are around? What is the dynamic there?

 

This has to be confusing for them, I would guess. Have they always been in an open marriage? Has he had previous gf's around his children? Are they young, or teens?

 

Sorry for the 20 questions, just trying to get an understanding of what the children are involved in and seeing.

 

I agree that someone who can just be peaceful with being OW, is rare. You hear of them being okay, because they don't have to deal with all the other garbage, kids, picking up after them, etc. They get to have the love of their life in there life, and then get to go on with their life as well. But you seem to not be getting that. Honestly, you seem to be getting the short end of both sticks. You don't just get the romantic times, with out the interwine of children, and everything else. And you don't get the man all to yourself. You get to share the man and the other responsbilities. This just doesn't even seem to be fair to you at all, nor does it fall with in the "typical confines" of what most OW who are okay just being that like about being the OW.

[MissBee]

Sleep more peacefully, date someone who does not inspire resentment and resolve that there are plenty of other men out there who are not in this 'family' situation with whom you can have 'great sex'.

 

Given his home life, if he's anything like the men of my generation I've known over the years who drive, he's got a black book and a little 'comfort' wherever his travels take him. Think about that. As a man, why would I be celibate during the week while out on the road when my wife is having 'relations' with multiple partners?

 

OP, what is your 'arrangement' with him? Are you exclusive? How does he feel about you dating other men?

 

Anyone can afford to get a divorce. The court will even help with the costs and provide human help in some cases. BTDT. We even got free mediation and settlement preparation from a local law school.

 

Myself, I'd have some marked resentment for this apparent polygamous lifestyle, no matter how it is 'explained'. YMMV.

 

Ditto!

[wannabdone]

I think what is making it so hard is she doesn't want him, period, there is no good emotions or good feedback ...she has told me over and over how he and I make such a great couple and that if she had to pick someone for him, she wouldn't be able to pick a better person then me, because she knows I make him happy and she trusts me with the kids. She doesn't have a problem with being replaced in his affections, she has a problem with him not giving her his whole paycheck, doing things around the house and she has said over and over again, they can't afford to get a divorce, because neither has the money

 

Trucker girl... I am sorry to bombared you. I know I just asked you like a million questions. But I am confused on this. So, she doesn't want him, period. You and he are exclusive, but he is having sex with you and her? And she is having sex with like 6 other people? And you are watching children, etc., but you are only with him? But you two are exclusive? The only person that I see who is attaching themselves to someone exclusively is you. These two people are off doing it with other people, and you aren't and your watching the kids???

 

Girl, this so unfair!!! And yes, darling, i'm afraid you are being used.

 

In addition to the questions I had asked earlier, about the kids. I still would really like to know.

 

I have one more, and then I'll wait for your answer, before I ask any more.

 

You aren't helping them out financially, are you????

[MissBee]

Trucker girl... I am sorry to bombared you. I know I just asked you like a million questions. But I am confused on this. So, she doesn't want him, period. You and he are exclusive, but he is having sex with you and her? And she is having sex with like 6 other people? And you are watching children, etc., but you are only with him? But you two are exclusive? The only person that I see who is attaching themselves to someone exclusively is you. These two people are off doing it with other people, and you aren't and your watching the kids???

 

Girl, this so unfair!!! And yes, darling, i'm afraid you are being used.

 

In addition to the questions I had asked earlier, about the kids. I still would really like to know.

 

I have one more, and then I'll wait for your answer, before I ask any more.

 

You aren't helping them out financially, are you????

 

This!!!

[xxoo]

Yes, do not overlook the fact that they are still having sex, and the "good emotions" that come with that. You and he are NOT exclusive if he is sleeping with her.

 

With all the other partners, why would they sleep together if they don't like each other?? It isn't like they don't have other options....

[MissBee]

Yes, do not overlook the fact that they are still having sex, and the "good emotions" that come with that. You and he are NOT exclusive if he is sleeping with her.

With all the other partners, why would they sleep together if they don't like each other?? It isn't like they don't have other options....

 

Yes...that is very peculiar.

[fooled once]

Yeah they do and no, I'm not. I have gotten myself in such a tangled web, and I am planning on getting out of it, he is going to be here tonight and we are going to have nice long talk about this whole situation. And firs and foremost I am going to tell im EXACTLY, how I am feeling....it should be interesting to see how he responds

 

Omg.

 

They are still having sex and you know this so therefore you must be okay with it.

 

Both of them are having sex with each other and others and you are the babysitter! Omg. I would be livid and kicking both of them to the curb.

 

Those poor kids . They are the innocents in all this and how sad is it that this is what they are being taught is normal.

 

You are being so used. I hope you take off your rose colored glasses and see what is going on!

[country_gurl]

I feel so incredibly sorry for the poor innocent children here. How can any of you not be considering how you're all screwing them up? You are all adults and role models to these children; yes, you as well. How *****ed up is it that they see Mommy and Daddy having all kinds of other partners in their lives. What a shameful lot.

[truckersgirl]

Sorry haven't been on been job interviewing and got the job....Anyway, here I sit reading what everyone has written and i am going to try and answer all the questions......

 

Let's start with the kids, no she has not introduced her children to any of the other guys, yes they know about a few, they've talked on the phone with them. Do the kids know about the open marriage, yes, do the realize the meaning no, one is 12 the other 10. Is this wrong for the children, yes, and yes I am just as guilty as they are for allowing them to be around this. Have I voiced my opinion, yes, but everyone has an opinion, was it well received yes, I am the only one that has been and is presented as Daddy's girlfriend. Do they know the meaning of this, I don't know, I am a girl and I am Daddy's friend, we show no overly friendly responses to each other in front of the kids. So is this an excuse, no and I am not trying to make any, it is what it i, and since I am neither parent it is not my business to inform them of exactly my true relationship with there Dad, nor is it my business to inform these kids of there mommy's dates. What is my business and what I have control over is how his and my relationship is when around the kids. And it is friends and that is it. We do not hang all over each other when they around, we dont do that anyway, whether they are or are not. Is this healthy for the kids, is this teaching them the meaning of responsibilty and commitment. I am in 100% agreement this is not good for the kids. As I said i am not their parents.

 

As for are they still sleeping with each other, NO I was under the impression they were, but they have both told me they are not.

 

He and i spent Monday night together and we spent most of the night talking before we went to sleep. I told him how I was feeling and he listened, and he listened and agreed with me. He understands and agrees with me, but the bottom line is this ......in the end, and when I truly look at the quagmire of Sh** I have gotten myself in, I am the only one to end this. I told him last Friday night, I was going to get screwed out of my weekend and he said no baby, I promise it will be just us, I told him then nice try but its gonna happen, and damn if it isn't.. He was suppose to be home around 8, but because he got loaded late he got a late start so wont be in till around midnight or so, which is fine, it is his job, and I have NO problem with that.....but tomorrow he has a family thing to do, with her family, and then in Sunday is his sons birthday. So, when they get back from the family thing which is 11 to 6 which means I am again sending my Saturday alone and then when he gets back he and the kids will be here, sunday, is his sons birthday and I will be included but then they and there mom will leave around 7, we will have about 2 or 3 hours of time before we go to sleep because he has to be at his truck by 6 and i start me new job at 8.

 

So, as i sit here at almost 9 p.m. my time there is a chance, a big one he will not be in town till morning, he can only drive so long, both leagally and sleep wise, so our celebrating my new job as we planned, we will not be. I have been doing a lot of soul searching and thinking the last week and all night tonight and it is time to end things, and I have decided it is best, because in the 6 months we have been together, we have spent one and only one weekend by ourselves and that is the weekend we drove from where I lived to where I am now., out of those 6 months there has been one weekend where he worked, the rest has been split between her house and my house, but NEVER once have we spent a weekend completely alone.

 

I start a new job on Monday, doing something that i love and am passionate about, and i am going to close the chapter on my love life and this new job is just what i need to help me do that.

 

The thought of him not being in my life is tearing me apart, but I deserve better, I demand better and I will eventually find better.

 

What will they tell the kids about my not being Daddy's girlfriend anymore, well they can say whatever they want. Will I miss them absolutely they are great kids, even in this f***** up situation they are and have and will continue

[fooled once]

What a truly open and honest post from you. You are owning your 'bad' choices and admitting that you are also contributing to the problem -- especially with the kids. Obviously the kids know daddy sleeps with you - and please stop calling yourself daddy's girlfriend. The kids will learn from friends/tv/etc that when mommy and daddy are married, there are no other 'girl' or 'boy' friends. And since you have only been in his life for 6 months; and of that 6 months, have only spent 2 nights alone and the rest are with his children or alone - you really don't even know this guy!!!

 

He is showing you through actions that he is having fun with you. Nothing serious, a good time gal. AND a free babysitter.

 

Please do NOT go to his son's birthday. If you are done, pack any of his things and have them waiting for him. Ask him to get them in the morning before going to HIS WIFE'S family outing. Don't delay getting him out of your home/your life. Start NOW.

 

You are starting a new chapter on Monday - YAY on the job!!! Congratulations! You need to focus on the job. Channel all your energy into it. Focus on it. Drown yourself in it. This is the best time to end the affair because you DO have something new to focus on.

 

Make Monday the start of a totally new journey for you. Give yourself the weekend to mourn the end of the affair. Cry, eat, cry, watch sad movies, listen to sad songs - get it all out. Do this FOR YOU. You do realize you are worth more than being some married couples baby sitter and free sex from the husband, right? You are! You are a young, strong woman. EMBRACE this time in your life. EMBRACE your independence. Make yourself a "non negotiable" list of qualities you will not 'settle' for in a partner - such as he must be single!

 

Life is too short to wound up in all this drama. You has chosen his WIFE - he is going to a gathering of HER family instead of being with you. He has made the choice. NOW you make YOUR choice. CHOOSE YOU!!!

 

I wish you the best. Come back Monday and let us know how the first day is! You will ROCK IT!!!! Be excited for this new journey. Close the chapter on the past and move forward!! :bunny:

[wannabdone]

Sorry haven't been on been job interviewing and got the job....Anyway, here I sit reading what everyone has written and i am going to try and answer all the questions......

 

Let's start with the kids, no she has not introduced her children to any of the other guys, yes they know about a few, they've talked on the phone with them. Do the kids know about the open marriage, yes, do the realize the meaning no, one is 12 the other 10. Is this wrong for the children, yes, and yes I am just as guilty as they are for allowing them to be around this. Have I voiced my opinion, yes, but everyone has an opinion, was it well received yes, I am the only one that has been and is presented as Daddy's girlfriend. Do they know the meaning of this, I don't know, I am a girl and I am Daddy's friend, we show no overly friendly responses to each other in front of the kids. So is this an excuse, no and I am not trying to make any, it is what it i, and since I am neither parent it is not my business to inform them of exactly my true relationship with there Dad, nor is it my business to inform these kids of there mommy's dates. What is my business and what I have control over is how his and my relationship is when around the kids. And it is friends and that is it. We do not hang all over each other when they around, we dont do that anyway, whether they are or are not. Is this healthy for the kids, is this teaching them the meaning of responsibilty and commitment. I am in 100% agreement this is not good for the kids. As I said i am not their parents.

 

As for are they still sleeping with each other, NO I was under the impression they were, but they have both told me they are not.

 

He and i spent Monday night together and we spent most of the night talking before we went to sleep. I told him how I was feeling and he listened, and he listened and agreed with me. He understands and agrees with me, but the bottom line is this ......in the end, and when I truly look at the quagmire of Sh** I have gotten myself in, I am the only one to end this. I told him last Friday night, I was going to get screwed out of my weekend and he said no baby, I promise it will be just us, I told him then nice try but its gonna happen, and damn if it isn't.. He was suppose to be home around 8, but because he got loaded late he got a late start so wont be in till around midnight or so, which is fine, it is his job, and I have NO problem with that.....but tomorrow he has a family thing to do, with her family, and then in Sunday is his sons birthday. So, when they get back from the family thing which is 11 to 6 which means I am again sending my Saturday alone and then when he gets back he and the kids will be here, sunday, is his sons birthday and I will be included but then they and there mom will leave around 7, we will have about 2 or 3 hours of time before we go to sleep because he has to be at his truck by 6 and i start me new job at 8.

 

So, as i sit here at almost 9 p.m. my time there is a chance, a big one he will not be in town till morning, he can only drive so long, both leagally and sleep wise, so our celebrating my new job as we planned, we will not be. I have been doing a lot of soul searching and thinking the last week and all night tonight and it is time to end things, and I have decided it is best, because in the 6 months we have been together, we have spent one and only one weekend by ourselves and that is the weekend we drove from where I lived to where I am now., out of those 6 months there has been one weekend where he worked, the rest has been split between her house and my house, but NEVER once have we spent a weekend completely alone.

 

I start a new job on Monday, doing something that i love and am passionate about, and i am going to close the chapter on my love life and this new job is just what i need to help me do that.

 

The thought of him not being in my life is tearing me apart, but I deserve better, I demand better and I will eventually find better.

 

What will they tell the kids about my not being Daddy's girlfriend anymore, well they can say whatever they want. Will I miss them absolutely they are great kids, even in this f***** up situation they are and have and will continue

 

 

I agree, they aren't your kids and at the end of the day, you have no say. But the very core of they know its an open marriage, but don't know what that is and on and so forth, is so ridiculously sad. 12 year olds these days very much understand sex and things of that nature. So don't delude yourself that they don't. They are not the 12 year olds we were. I can not imagine what it must be like for them. They probably don't know whether to **** or go sailing. And what will their relationships in the future look like. good lord. Why in the **** these people don't leave eachother, stay married, but live in seperate houses makes zero sense, especially since they don't sleep together. They could still raise their kids, he could do his "honey do's" and they could **** who they wanted when the children where in the other's house, then the kids wouldn't be involved in this ****ed up mess. And honestly I don't see why you want to be around such senseless people who apparently use you. Again, I know they aren't your children, and you have no say. But you still are an adult, and have the right to not be involved in ****ing these kids lives up any more than what they are. That would be like if my kid had friends over and I let them drink...."well they aren't my kids, so I can't say anything right?" WRONG!!! As adults, we can make a stand and not be involved. I'm sorry to sound harsh, but ****ing up your life is one thing, but helping facilitate a childrens life being ****ed up is another. I know daddy will surely go get another "friend", but let that be on that "friends" shoulders, and not yours.

 

I hope you do get the hell of out this. 1- and most important, because I don't see how you could live with yourself and what your doing to those innocent human beings, and 2- for you. Because you do deserve more, you deserve everything you want in life. GO GET IT!!! Cuz your sure in the hell not going to get it from this. Start that job, and go girl!!!!

 

As far as the w/e, sorry, that sux. That is the problem with these R. You get left overs, and in this world were people work more, kids have more activities, those left overs get few and far between.

 

I'm praying for you.

[truckersgirl]

thanks as I sit here crying my eyes out. I have packed all of his stuff, god that was hard. I feel worse then I did when my marriage broke up, that sucks! I know this is best for me and in the end the pain will go away and I will get over this. As I said it is going to be up to them to tell the kids why I am not around, I knew I deserved better when I walked out of my marriage, NO it had Nothing to do with him.

 

You are so right new chapter, new job glad I have something else to concentrate on, and concentrate I will......thank for the kind words...

[whichwayisup]

Congrats on the new job, that's wonderful! Focus on that, make this number one and don't let the bad stuff ruin what IS great in front of you.

 

It'll hurt for a while, cry and grieve, journal your feelings, post here. Just know that in time you will have better days and it'll get easier.

[truckersgirl]

I hope you do get the hell of out this. 1- and most important, because I don't see how you could live with yourself and what your doing to those innocent human beings, and 2- for you. Because you do deserve more, you deserve everything you want in life. GO GET IT!!! Cuz your sure in the hell not going to get it from this. Start that job, and go girl!!!!

 

I am getting out of this relationship, but here is my question to you...I get out, the kids are going to still be EXPOSED to the situation, with others, so I am not the ONE doing this to those innocent children, they are. Do I feel bad, hell yes I do, do I feel ashamed of what has happened, no and I am not going to rake myself over the coals any more than I should. I have become very close to those two kids and it breaks my heart that I won't see them anymore we have become close and he has said I am as a person , a good influence on his children, especially his ten year old daughter, because I spend time with her, I am/was teaching how to cook and clean and be a lady and the one thing I will not allow anyone here or anywhere else for that matter make me the bad guy is all of this. There are three adults in this relationship and two of them are the parents. So yes, I see your point and yes I am getting out of this because it is NOT HEALTHY FOR ME, as for the kids wish I could still be in there lives for some sort of stability. With said......

 

And you are right I do deserve better and eventually I may get it, for now my concentration is my career, period. Thanks for the encouragement and kind words, don't mean to grumpy, I am just feel like I have been hit in the stomach with a shovel.

 

I'm praying for you.

 

Thank you

[truckersgirl]

Thank you, I am a writer actually and it is and will continue to be very good therapy for me ...thank you

[SoMovinOn]

Perhaps one way to get some alone time with him would be to go away with him on the weekend he is with you, rather than being at your house or his house. Just the two of you could do an overnight trip somewhere close.

[wannabdone]

I hope you do get the hell of out this. 1- and most important, because I don't see how you could live with yourself and what your doing to those innocent human beings, and 2- for you. Because you do deserve more, you deserve everything you want in life. GO GET IT!!! Cuz your sure in the hell not going to get it from this. Start that job, and go girl!!!!

 

I am getting out of this relationship, but here is my question to you...I get out, the kids are going to still be EXPOSED to the situation, with others, so I am not the ONE doing this to those innocent children, they are. Do I feel bad, hell yes I do, do I feel ashamed of what has happened, no and I am not going to rake myself over the coals any more than I should. I have become very close to those two kids and it breaks my heart that I won't see them anymore we have become close and he has said I am as a person , a good influence on his children, especially his ten year old daughter, because I spend time with her, I am/was teaching how to cook and clean and be a lady and the one thing I will not allow anyone here or anywhere else for that matter make me the bad guy is all of this. There are three adults in this relationship and two of them are the parents. So yes, I see your point and yes I am getting out of this because it is NOT HEALTHY FOR ME, as for the kids wish I could still be in there lives for some sort of stability. With said......

 

And you are right I do deserve better and eventually I may get it, for now my concentration is my career, period. Thanks for the encouragement and kind words, don't mean to grumpy, I am just feel like I have been hit in the stomach with a shovel.

 

I'm praying for you.

 

Thank you

 

No, I know they will, and I had said that they would still be exposed. Just for you though, you don't want to be the one exposing them. Let that burden be on those parents.... not you.

I bet you were a good influence, God, you seem like you are a good person, and those kids need someone like that. It sure doesn't seem that mom is all that great.

 

I'm sorry you are sad, this is just as hard as a divorce, you have been with him a long time and emotions are involved. But you have to do it for you!!! You will be a better person, and you will get the happiness you deserve and want.

 

Keep me updated.

[Woman In Blue]

The thought of him not being in my life is tearing me apart, but I deserve better, I demand better and I will eventually find better.

I honestly don't get it. What are you going to miss about being a babysitter and a free bed & breakfast establishment for he and his kids to SPONGE off you every other weekend? I honestly can't think of anything LESS appealing (well maybe having a cheese grater continually scraped over my scalp for 3 hours might be worse).

 

You've had ONE lousy weekend alone with him in 6 months - so what's to mourn? All the rest of the time, you were the unpaid servant, cook and free hotel for he and his kids so his wife could conduct her sexual free-for-all over at their shack/trailer.

 

These two are actually nauseating - and ignorant as hell. Are they so feeble minded that they actually think THIS disgusting way of life is BETTER for these kids than being divorced and having shared custody? And his pig wife thinks it's CUTE to have her kids talk on the phone to the different guys she's screwing?

 

Let me guess - they live in a tailer park or in a shack by the railroad tracks and she's got more tattoos than a sailor? I'd be willing to bet the farm he's missing teeth. They just sound like your sterotypical hillbillies.

Edited September 10, 2011 by Woman In Blue

[truckersgirl]

No, I know they will, and I had said that they would still be exposed. Just for you though, you don't want to be the one exposing them. Let that burden be on those parents.... not you.

I bet you were a good influence, God, you seem like you are a good person, and those kids need someone like that. It sure doesn't seem that mom is all that great.

 

Thanks for saying that, the situation is such a mess, and yes I worry about the kids. I have tried to be a good influence with the kids and that is also breaking my heart. Not being able to see them. I know people stay married for all the wrong reasons sometimes, I know I did for 14 years before I walked out, and I helped raise four wonderful kids, who have all grown into adulthood as well adjusted as possible considering both parents are alcholics. I guess a part testomot to that is they still call me Mom and even though thier Dad and I are divorced,I am still a part of their lives and my grandkids lives. I just think not only would the kids be happier and more well adjusted but they would be happier too. I know his kids love me and one day she was over with the kids and asked them if I divorced your Daddy and he married Miss Kathy how would you feel, they both looked at her and then looked at me and said, cool she would be our stepmom, the 12 year old piped up could we come live with you and Daddy then, it broke heart then and even more so now, because it is never going to happen.

 

I'm sorry you are sad, this is just as hard as a divorce, you have been with him a long time and emotions are involved. But you have to do it for you!!! You will be a better person, and you will get the happiness you deserve and want.

 

I think what I am going to miss the most with him is our friendship, remember we may have only met face to face for the first time in March but we have been friends for a very long time. Our friendship and falling asleep in his arms, I have never felt so safe and secure with anyone like I do with him...

 

Well I guess it is time to get out the super glue and duct tape and put my heart back together ....will keep you posted

[truckersgirl]

I honestly don't get it. What are you going to miss about being a babysitter and a free bed & breakfast establishment for he and his kids to SPONGE off you every other weekend? I honestly can't think of anything LESS appealing (well maybe having a cheese grater continually scraped over my scalp for 3 hours might be worse).

 

I did not say I am going to miss the stupid bull****, I m going to miss having him in my life, we were friends BEFORE we became involved with each other. We may have been on line friends for a year and a half BUT we were friends, and I take my friendships with people seriously and to the heart.

 

Let me guess - they live in a tailer park or in a shack by the railroad tracks and she's got more tattoos than a sailor? I'd be willing to bet the farm he's missing teeth. They just sound like your sterotypical hillbillies.

 

Now I realize I have opened myself up for be criticized, chastized and basically told I am stupid for allowing this and yes, I came here for advice and I have gotten some great advice that has allowed me to see the whole picture of what it is rather than what I want it to be. I will admit that and have no problem with that but let me say this some of the best people I have met are redneck hillibilles and i also have met of the most ignorant, back stabbing well educated people as well. i have not lived in South Texas my whole life I am from the midwest and I have met some people here who are better than any of the jerks I knew then........so with that said, here is the deal, no she has no tattoos, yes, he has a beautiful smile with ALL of his teeth and NO they do not live in a trailer or a shack by the railroad....that is pretty sterotypical dont you think? I have known well educated, rich men who have beautiful homes, with great kids and they beat there wives on a regular basis....so with the thinking you stated I guess I can say that all well educated, rich men who live in nice homes beat there wives......same thing dont you think?

[wannabdone]

I honestly don't get it. What are you going to miss about being a babysitter and a free bed & breakfast establishment for he and his kids to SPONGE off you every other weekend? I honestly can't think of anything LESS appealing (well maybe having a cheese grater continually scraped over my scalp for 3 hours might be worse).

 

You've had ONE lousy weekend alone with him in 6 months - so what's to mourn? All the rest of the time, you were the unpaid servant, cook and free hotel for he and his kids so his wife could conduct her sexual free-for-all over at their shack/trailer.

 

These two are actually nauseating - and ignorant as hell. Are they so feeble minded that they actually think THIS disgusting way of life is BETTER for these kids than being divorced and having shared custody? And his pig wife thinks it's CUTE to have her kids talk on the phone to the different guys she's screwing?

 

Let me guess - they live in a tailer park or in a shack by the railroad tracks and she's got more tattoos than a sailor? I'd be willing to bet the farm he's missing teeth. They just sound like your sterotypical hillbillies.

 

 

I'm sorry, I think that wasn't called for here. We can disagree with what is going on with the children, but come on. There is no cause to be so judgemental. Not necessary at all.

 

I have voiced my disagreement for what is going on with these children. But, also she is going through something and it hurts.

[Silly_Girl]

I'm sorry, I think that wasn't called for here. We can disagree with what is going on with the children, but come on. There is no cause to be so judgemental. Not necessary at all.

 

I have voiced my disagreement for what is going on with these children. But, also she is going through something and it hurts.

 

Am really pleased you posted this. I agree.

[wannabdone]

Am really pleased you posted this. I agree.

 

 

SG.... Pissed I posted something? Or the WIB? Agree with me?

 

Sorry, just wanted to clarify I hadn't pissed someone off.

 

 

Hey Trucker girl.... I'm sorry that their are people who have to be so rude and hateful. Disagreements are okay, but down right rudeness is total horse s***. That was unnecessarily cruel.

 

How are you doing today?