" Why Does He still act like my man, and why am I still in love with him?"

[HoodGoddess69]

Ok, I don't know if this classifies as "dating", but I'm at my wit's end!!! This is the deal......I met this really nice guy about a year ago...We took our time with everything....no sex for 4 months;etc.....Anyway, the relationship was going really well...He was everything I've ever wanted in a man....He went through a WHOLE lot of s*#t, but I was there for him through everything.....I even moved out of my parents' home when he got kicked out......

 

Everything was still gravy, until he kept mentioning his baby's mom and daughter.....I have no problems with children...He makes mention of them coming down to stay permenantly on a wednesday......I was staying with him, so I had to move out in 2 days!!! Did that, then moved to Maryland in hopes of starting over....He tracked me down! We still see each other on occasion...I do love him, I really do....I know we won't get back together, and that hurts......But why is he acting like my man still? Why does he get mad if another guy calls me, and all that jazz????? Is this a game he's playing??? I mean, he hits me off on the computer, and if i mention that I have to go do something real quick, he'll come back with " What's his name??"

 

What is reallly good??? I'm confused.........

[LILUIL]

sorry to say, but sounds like he has more problems than you.

 

follow your heart, listen to your conscience, leave your mind out out this one.