without Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 I was dumped 2 months ago,the kind that you don't have any idea why.. a month ago I saw that I can't get over him I was literally dying.. so i started online dating,I found a guy ,I really liked his face,he was really short but i don't care about height,and he also had a great job,very hard working. He never asked much about me,didn't want to date in person,he said he hardly accepts someone as his gf. I accepted,but he would only just wanted me for seeing me from skype and chatting ,sexting,asking to see how my body looked..I was feeling sad I told him hen we're not that close,I'm not comfortable doing these..He turned the conversation so i was the one feeling guilty..he said i'm the one making him turned on,but i wasn't doing anything!!..anyways i even thought about dumping him but i didn't want to get back to thinking about my ex and crying..so I tried my best to keep him... but in the end I asked him does he even like me?..he didn't answer my text..and after he said maybe he got used to me but a month of chatting doesn't bring liking someone..I was so sad and i told him i didn't asked you love me or not i asked you like me..you don't even like me and I feel stupid for doing those for you..you don't even like my appearance?..he didn't answer again,but after he said you interpreted again,i said ok tell me where i'm wrong.. he said look what i've said earlier and you'll find out..I thought maybe he likes me idk he says these like its my fault... late that night he asked me to be online but i was sleep ,and the day after he didn't answer any of my calls or textings...in the afternoon he said I told you before,I said what did u say? he didn't say anything and after a while he said i don't see any point in dating for us..I said why?give me another chance and he said no.. I mean what the hell?..If anyone ,I was the one that should dump him,not him!..but he hasn't deleted me from facebook.. what should i do?
robertdawson Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Didn't want to date in person, what the heck? Also, he is asking you to sext and to get revealing pictures of you? He sounds like a weirdo to be honest. I'd move on. The way he is responding to you is stupid, even if you are asking needy/clingy questions.
grkBoy Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 what should i do? Move on. Most of what I'm seeing here is your insecurity. You were "rejected" and that bothers you a lot. I'm not sure if you fit this description, but I have seen women, even gorgeous ones, go crazy when a guy rejects them. They've spent so much time being worshiped by men that they can't handle it when one decides she's not "desirable". This guy kept you at bay, made you chase him more and more, and now walked. He played games, and you're looking for any inkling of possibility that he'll magically change and become Mr Ideal. You don't want to accept the reality that he toyed with you and now moved on. Don't even mention the word "closure". Seen too many men and women go on and on how they want this illusion of "closure". What they really want is a chance to get in front of this person so they can beg and/or try to convince this person to give things another shot. Usually when they get it, it's an even bigger bitter truth they can't handle. You got too close, it's only been two months, just start doing things in your life to be busy, occupied, and let the wounds heal. If you're just laying around the house on off time thinking about him, then you won't get better. Reject him now...delete him from Facebook, phone, anything you have where you could be in contact. Cut him off and don't let him back in. That's how you move on. You deserve better than this...we all do.
thatone Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 probably because the online guy has a wife or gf and he's just e-cheating on her with you.
Author without Posted September 3, 2011 Author Posted September 3, 2011 Move on. Most of what I'm seeing here is your insecurity. You were "rejected" and that bothers you a lot. I'm not sure if you fit this description, but I have seen women, even gorgeous ones, go crazy when a guy rejects them. They've spent so much time being worshiped by men that they can't handle it when one decides she's not "desirable". This guy kept you at bay, made you chase him more and more, and now walked. He played games, and you're looking for any inkling of possibility that he'll magically change and become Mr Ideal. You don't want to accept the reality that he toyed with you and now moved on. Don't even mention the word "closure". Seen too many men and women go on and on how they want this illusion of "closure". What they really want is a chance to get in front of this person so they can beg and/or try to convince this person to give things another shot. Usually when they get it, it's an even bigger bitter truth they can't handle. You got too close, it's only been two months, just start doing things in your life to be busy, occupied, and let the wounds heal. If you're just laying around the house on off time thinking about him, then you won't get better. Reject him now...delete him from Facebook, phone, anything you have where you could be in contact. Cut him off and don't let him back in. That's how you move on. You deserve better than this...we all do. yeah you're right...
Lucky_One Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Yes, you just got played by a guy for a month's worth of sexual internet fun. He had no intentions of dating you in any real sense. Online dating is fine, but dating online is not, when a guy is local and you can see each other. Granted, if you were "dying" from a broken heart, then you had no business dating anyone until you are emotionally ready to enter another relationship. You could meet some super-nice guy and screw him up for life by dumping him and saying "I'm so sorry - I thought I could do this, but I am still in love with this loser who dumped me."
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